Diet and Bias

My diet went really well for the first 31 days. I started January 1–by chance and not for some New Year’s resolution—more like a reaction to the hypertensive reaction to the insanity called The Holidays. The ground rules were 1200 calories a day. From past experience, I have found fewer calories put me in a foul starvation mode and mood. More calories and I don’t lose weight—my body gets really efficient at converting energy from food.

Since I have metabolic syndrome, high blood pressure, and gout, and do not wish to take drugs for any of it—drugs should be for recreational purposes—my food choices are limited. No white flour, processed foods, salt, sugar, fruit, rice, starches, cereals, red meats, and only skim milk as a dairy product. Luckily, I cook well and quickly and love vegetables and beans. I bought the app MyFitnessPal for the iphone and diligently entered all of my meals and exercises.

Since the bible has 27 references to wine as a blessing from god, I limited myself to 2, maybe 3, ounces a day. Since pot creates a munchies haven by lowering blood sugar I stopped that completely—I need all of the help I can get. I limited home roasted  caffeinated coffee to two cups (more like mugs) a day before noon. I also allowed myself 2 squares of Lindt 70% chocolate per day

I boosted my fish oil to 6 grams a day, took 3 Aloe Vera gel caps, Magnesium, Vitamin D3, and a Melatonin tablet for sleeping at night since I already tend to be a light sleeper and if nothing else would see it as a placebo or Pavlovian bell. I also took a daily vitamin dose called Alive. I decided to walk/run 4 miles a day with a range of 50 to 70 minutes. I use that time to talk to my sister in Oklahoma for support to me and support to her as she is caring for my Level IV demented mother at her home.

I set up appropriate goals. I had a daily reward, chocolate and whiskey in the evening, and a longterm reward of lowered blood pressure and a desired weight 165 (lose 15 lbs which halved my risk in a couple of health areas).

The first few days were a little tough from withdrawal. I spent that time awake and reading everything I could about everything I was doing from any credible source—about 20 hrs a week the first two weeks. The iPhone is an amazing research tool at night, in bed, and warm, in this old, cold, stone and brick, wood-heated house.

I had tremendous energy at first. I would wake at 4:30, ready to go, writing my ass off and taking a walk before the kids were up and out to school. I annoyed my wife with loud tapping on the keyboard, in the winter our bedroom is next to the kitchen. She appreciated that I was now making the coffee and lighting a morning fire. I had before slept in because I am a 9 hr a night person and the kitchen is too small for all of us. Now I just couldn’t contain myself and had to be up.

I avoided staying at parties, excusing myself before the big meal, driving home and having my own dinner. Indeed, I often excused myself from eating with the family so I didn’t have to be tempted. Also, so I didn’t lord it about them what a terrible diet they were enjoying and soon they would be pizzaing themselves into the emergency room—but maybe 30-40 years from now. Nothing like teenagers in the house to bring out the parent in you.

It’s important to know that I have been overweight since I was 10. One summer at my Grandparents they let me drink all of the soda pop I could and I did, like water. They also always had starchy foods and sweets. I put on 10 pounds in one summer, which at that time was 15% of my weight. At a party that fall, my mother’s friend, took me for a walk and said I was overweight. That began a lifelong trajectory of becoming healthy. As a computer geek and intellectual I was always balancing that against being outside, mountaineering, hiking, etc. I became strong and capable but always overweight.

I have subscribed and read, at some point, near all of the fitness, health, well being, outside, exercise, and nutrition magazines out there, as well as the books—I am an easy and eager autodidact. I was doing Ken Cooper’s Aerobics points in the 60’s, along with my mother who was also health oriented. One of the main reasons I quit high technology was my friends were overweight, unhealthy, and getting sick from lousy cubicle culture. So, I farmed, did construction, and followed a book called The Philosopher’s Diet which stated that health is a culture change and not a food and exercise routine.

All this to get to a couple of weeks ago, 31 days into my diet. I was still feeling good but the walks were harder, the blood pressure was down and I had lost a few pounds but the scale was up and down. I felt more tired, enervated. The honeymoon was over. Louise my wife said that I looked different though and my sister surmised that I was trading muscle for fat. All good. I still felt pretty great. Cocky even. This was much easier than I thought. What am I doing right this time versus other times? The last time I lost 20 pounds 6 years ago (and kept 15 of them off) I was a bear.

This first part was working because I was using:

  • Immediate and long term goals.
  • Distraction techniques.
  • Stimulation from the newness of the resolve.
  • Feeling of virtue from doing the right thing.
  • New activities that stimulated me.
  • Positive social feedback.
  • Temptation avoidance.
  • Immersion in the process.
  • Immediate reward of initial feeling of well being.
  • Intellectual success of understanding and completion.
  • Avoidance of excess suffering; eg, satisfied hunger pangs, didn’t quit drinking, had chocolate

Would this go one forever? I penned in my head a new bestseller weight loss book.  I was by chance reading David DiSalvo’s book at the time “What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite.” Most of the biases and info were already familiar to me but I was reading about them from a practical view instead of an intellectual view (I was also reading David Kahneman’s new book “Thinking Fast and Slow”).

Indeed, it began with a party at my friends, where instead of my leaving at dinner, I hung around. I started with some nice 10-year old whiskey, moved on to venison stew, grass fat beef, some sweet potatoes, all begun with a couple of organic chips with home made salsa. That slippery slope slid my ass all the way back home. That night in bed I was thinking a thunderstorm of thoughts:

  1. It was a special night. I had been good for 4 weeks. I hadn’t seen my friend for awhile. Their food is pretty wholesome.
  2. I reframed the evening to make it emotionally satisfying. But it was also making it more accessible and repeatable.
  3. I lived in the moment by excusing what was at hand and promising to do better in the future—a place so far away that it posed no threat for me. A continuance of the excuse so I wouldn’t feel bad.
  4. I excused myself after the bad action by claiming it was a reward in hindsight and thus made the failure a bonus, hell, a virtue.
  5. I told myself I had not finished my process but taken a break. Thus making the next break more easy to take. My routine or habit was not established yet I acted as if it were.
  6. I had been uncertain of how I should behave at this party and had taken a more sure, more comfortable road. I did not make a point of my diet but had gone along with politeness and agreement. I chose comfort, certainty, and agreeableness.
  7. I did what felt right rather than what was right and that felt really good. My friends would have understood if I had said no. They had done it themselves at other dinners.
  8. Since my friends do cleansing diets, as he is vastly overweight, I felt connected to them by suspending my diet to eat and drink with them.
  9. I justified my loss of thoroughness by sanctimoniously thinking that at least I hadn’t gorged myself. I actually figured out a way to reward my excess because at least I hadn’t eaten until I puked.
  10. I continued eating after the first chip and salsa because I had thrown the bar of excellence out the window and everything was now up for renegotiation in my highly emotional and excited state—think chimpanzee that realizes it doesn’t need to be restrained to get a reward.
  11. I avoided feeling disappointment by participating in this ceremony. I wouldn’t make them feel guilty by having dieting moral high ground.
  12. I vowed that this was an exception and it wouldn’t happen next time, knowing that tomorrow is a very, very long time away. I began repeating myself to create my memory.
  13. For the evening I gave up my routine techniques of distraction, aware eating (visualizing eating allows you to eat less), and substitution (vegetables and water before a meal help me eat less). Chocolate and whiskey after a meal serve as a cognitive reward for following the diet.

The next weekend was Super bowl Sunday and I did it all over again. I did it again the following weekend. Now I had a routine of one day a week blowing my diet. It’s OK after all, right?

DiSalvo’s book begins with

If we could live our lives without bias, distortions, and delusions involved, the world would truly be idyllic. But we can’t, though we’re largely ignorant of this fact. We function much of the time with an air of mystification about why we do what we do, and why we think as we think—not because we are dull witted. Much the opposite: only a brain advanced enough to engage in complex thought and self-reflection is susceptible to the fuzzy mystification that obscures how our mind really works.

Just before, he lists basic impulses that lead to poor but happy thinking:

  • We crave certainty and the feeling of being right.
  • We rely on memory to buttress that feeling.
  • We’re prone to assigning meaning to coincidence, and making casual links with scant information.
  • We want to feel in control.
  • We try to avoid loss.
  • We regulate our moral behavior to feel “balanced”.
  • We attempt to circumnavigate regret.
  • We generalize when specificity would be more beneficial.

I got the most recent issue of Mind magazine (pop psych mind neuroscience) a couple of days ago. It has an excellent short article on emotional sobriety—when to engage with negative feelings and when to ignore them. Wray Herbert speaks of alcohol addiction but I conjecture that weight loss and many other kids of habit change also involve emotional sobriety:

That alcoholics and other addicts hoping to stay sober over the long haul must learn to regulate the negative feelings that can lead to discomfort, craving and—ultimately—relapse. Doing so is a lifelong project and requires a whole new way of thinking about life’s travails.

My first reaction is Oh, No, not the exaddict will have to cold turkey and then be miserable the rest of their life because they don’t experience peaks and valleys anymore…this is old school. I read on.

Essentially the article notes there are two ways of emotional thinking when creating change. Unthinking or distraction, and the slower rethinking of the people, places, and things that once did and could again throw us off kilter. At first, we go “la, la, la, la, la” (my example) to not even hear what we know will derail us but then as time goes on we need to reassess our personal culture so we don’t have to go “la, la, la, la” all of the time.

Disengagement and not paying attention at first works but then habituation sets in along with all of the biases towards comfort, agreeableness, control and just getting on with life.

That’s what I have to do now. I have to go back to “la, la, la, la” because I am so derailed from my diet. I also need to reevaluate my lifestyle and culture such that I can succeed without using all of my dissociative tricks that take up so much energy that they will ultimately fail.

I used to say if it itches, scratch it but what I meant was if it itches, scratch it so hard that it bleeds, scars, no longer itches, and then get on with life–we’re too superficial about appearance anyway. No I don’t mean that, I don’t think? It would be better if I scratched it some, distracted myself, and then took some aspirin to stop the itch, and then determined what caused the itch, and changed that. It’s such a long ass project though…

I also think it does become part of a personality issue. They say 80% of the population has optimism bias. That is they are too damned optimistic for their own well being. Always avoiding the negative, always avoiding the hard thinking, rarely seeing the task as it is.

Depressives tend to have a more realistic view of the world but they are depressed. It seems to me that even with this rather general distinction, different nuances of bias control are necessary. If we look at biases as remnants of evolutionary behavior, different biases have different advantages in different situations. At some point cognitive therapy will have to give up the big hammer for an assortment of tools just as pharmacology has to with prescription drugs.

What works for you and why?

Jim Newman

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Heuristc or Cognitive Biases

I first encountered heuristics in the computer world. As artificial intelligence and cybernetics exploded, when the PC was marketed everyone began to consider what intelligence meant. Since simple computers, and even mainframe programs like Eliza, were poking along trying to do simple intelligence like regulate a solenoid, and land us on the moon (using CP/M with its 7 command 8-bit structure), and since I had worked for Eaton-Kenway which made automated storage-retrieval systems where one person could control a massive warehouse, the entire Turing machine question seemed moot.

It was only time until machine chess would win and it would be only time until a computer would be smarter than any human. How tedious and religiously bound these arguments are; only religion thinks humans are unique and promotes vicious speciesism, and its corresponding meme that catches rationalists’ egos who deny religion but catch the disbelief so fundamental to our human ego expressed societally.

Now long after fuzzy logic software demo’s came free for Windows 95, geeks are opining the real difficulty is movement. That brains evolved for movement and robots still have the hardest time emulating kinetic energy. Logic, facts, and any number of algorithms  they can straddle no problem.

We humans can’t and in order to develop the rather small programs PCs could contain, programmers developed heuristics or rules of thumb. Of court they are fallacious in some cases, as are rules of thumb, and it wasn’t long until behaviorists and a host of other neurogeeks resolved heuristic biases, mistakes we make based on rules of thumb produced by the need to short cut long thinking.

I am pushing ahead of myself here but I want to go ahead and list this long list of heuristic biases or what are commonly known as cognitive biases basically unchanged from Wikipedia. The most interesting thing here is the recourse. The only recourse listed  is the reference to history and it is Kahneman and Tarsky. I cannot help but note Santyana who said we are doomed unless we pay attention to history and to Hegel who wrote that in our history is our progress.

Nevertheless every generation must learn anew, as consciousness is temporal, embodied time, and all of our wonderful knowledge could be destroyed rather quickly. Perhaps not as quickly as the Christian burning of the Great Library of Alexandria but nevertheless we need to be careful as while evolution doesn’t care whether we survive, I do and probably so do you! As consolation, it wouldn’t be the first time societies have had to reinvent the wheel, if they even needed it.

Look through them and many will be familiar.

  • Ambiguity effect – the tendency to avoid options for which missing information makes the probability seem “unknown.”[5]
  • Anchoring – the tendency to rely too heavily, or “anchor,” on a past reference or on one trait or piece of information when making decisions (also called “insufficient adjustment”).
  • Attentional Bias – the tendency of emotionally dominant stimuli in one’s environment to preferentially draw and hold attention and to neglect relevant data when making judgments of a correlation or association.
  • Availability heuristic – estimating what is more likely by what is more available in memory, which is biased toward vivid, unusual, or emotionally charged examples.
  • Availability cascade – a self-reinforcing process in which a collective belief gains more and more plausibility through its increasing repetition in public discourse (or “repeat something long enough and it will become true”).
  • Backfire effect – when people react to disconfirming evidence by strengthening their beliefs[6]
  • Bandwagon effect – the tendency to do (or believe) things because many other people do (or believe) the same. Related to groupthink and herd behavior.
  • Base rate neglect or Base rate fallacy – the tendency to base judgments on specifics, ignoring general statistical information.[7]
  • Belief bias – an effect where someone’s evaluation of the logical strength of an argument is biased by the believability of the conclusion.[8]
  • Bias blind spot – the tendency to see oneself as less biased than other people.[9]
  • Choice-supportive bias – the tendency to remember one’s choices as better than they actually were.[10]
  • Clustering illusion – the tendency to see patterns where actually none exist. Also referred to as “patternicity” by author Michael Shermer.
  • Confirmation bias – the tendency to search for or interpret information in a way that confirms one’s preconceptions.[11]
  • Congruence bias – the tendency to test hypotheses exclusively through direct testing, in contrast to tests of possible alternative hypotheses.
  • Conjunction fallacy – the tendency to assume that specific conditions are more probable than general ones.[12]
  • Conservatism or Regressive Bias – tendency to underestimate high values and high likelihoods/probabilities/frequencies and overestimate low ones. Based on the observed evidence, estimates are not extreme enough[13][14]
  • Contrast effect – the enhancement or diminishing of a weight or other measurement when compared with a recently observed contrasting object.[15]
  • Denomination effect – the tendency to spend more money when it is denominated in small amounts (e.g. coins) rather than large amounts (e.g. bills).[16]
  • Distinction bias – the tendency to view two options as more dissimilar when evaluating them simultaneously than when evaluating them separately.[17]
  • Empathy gap – the tendency to underestimate the influence or strength of feelings, in either oneself or others.
  • Endowment effect – the fact that people often demand much more to give up an object than they would be willing to pay to acquire it.[18]
  • Exaggerated expectation – based on the estimates, real-world evidence turns out to be less extreme than our expectations (conditionally inverse of the conservatism bias).[19]
  • Experimenter’s or Expectation bias – the tendency for experimenters to believe, certify, and publish data that agree with their expectations for the outcome of an experiment, and to disbelieve, discard, or downgrade the corresponding weightings for data that appear to conflict with those expectations.[20]
  • Focusing effect – the tendency to place too much importance on one aspect of an event; causes error in accurately predicting the utility of a future outcome.[21]
  • Forward Bias – the tendency to create models based on past data which are validated only against that past data.
  • Framing effect – drawing different conclusions from the same information, depending on how that information is presented.
  • Frequency illusion – the illusion in which a word, a name or other thing that has recently come to one’s attention suddenly appears “everywhere” with improbable frequency (see also recency illusion). Sometimes called “The Baader-Meinhof phenomenon“.
  • Gambler’s fallacy – the tendency to think that future probabilities are altered by past events, when in reality they are unchanged. Results from an erroneous conceptualization of the Law of large numbers. For example, “I’ve flipped heads with this coin five times consecutively, so the chance of tails coming out on the sixth flip is much greater than heads.”
  • Hard-easy effect – Based on a specific level of task difficulty, the confidence in judgments is too conservative and not extreme enough[22][23][24]
  • Hindsight bias – sometimes called the “I-knew-it-all-along” effect, the tendency to see past events as being predictable[25] at the time those events happened.(sometimes phrased as “Hindsight is 20/20″)
  • Hostile media effect – the tendency to see a media report as being biased due to one’s own strong partisan views.
  • Hyperbolic discounting – the tendency for people to have a stronger preference for more immediate payoffs relative to later payoffs, where the tendency increases the closer to the present both payoffs are.[26]
  • Illusion of control – the tendency to overestimate one’s degree of influence over other external events.[27]
  • Illusory correlation – inaccurately perceiving a relationship between two unrelated events.[28][29]
  • Impact bias – the tendency to overestimate the length or the intensity of the impact of future feeling states.[30]
  • Information bias – the tendency to seek information even when it cannot affect action.[31]
  • Irrational escalation – the phenomenon where people justify increased investment in a decision, based on the cumulative prior investment, despite new evidence suggesting that the decision was probably wrong.
  • Just-world hypothesis – the tendency for people to want to believe that the world is fundamentally just, causing them to rationalize an otherwise inexplicable injustice as deserved by the victim(s).
  • Loss aversion – “the disutility of giving up an object is greater than the utility associated with acquiring it”.[32] (see also Sunk cost effects and Endowment effect).
  • Mere exposure effect – the tendency to express undue liking for things merely because of familiarity with them.[33]
  • Money illusion – the tendency to concentrate on the nominal (face value) of money rather than its value in terms of purchasing power.[34]
  • Moral credential effect – the tendency of a track record of non-prejudice to increase subsequent prejudice.
  • Negativity bias – the tendency to pay more attention and give more weight to negative than positive experiences or other kinds of information.
  • Neglect of probability – the tendency to completely disregard probability when making a decision under uncertainty.[35]
  • Normalcy bias – the refusal to plan for, or react to, a disaster which has never happened before.
  • Observer-expectancy effect – when a researcher expects a given result and therefore unconsciously manipulates an experiment or misinterprets data in order to find it (see also subject-expectancy effect).
  • Omission bias – the tendency to judge harmful actions as worse, or less moral, than equally harmful omissions (inactions).[36]
  • Optimism bias – the tendency to be over-optimistic, overestimating favorable and pleasing outcomes (see also wishful thinkingoptimism biasvalence effect,positive outcome bias).[37][38]
  • Ostrich effect – ignoring an obvious (negative) situation.
  • Outcome bias – the tendency to judge a decision by its eventual outcome instead of based on the quality of the decision at the time it was made.
  • Overconfidence effect – excessive confidence in one’s own answers to questions. For example, for certain types of questions, answers that people rate as “99% certain” turn out to be wrong 40% of the time.
  • Pareidolia – a vague and random stimulus (often an image or sound) is perceived as significant, e.g., seeing images of animals or faces in clouds, the man in the moon, and hearing hidden messages on records played in reverse.
  • Pessimism bias – the tendency for some people, especially those suffering from depression, to overestimate the likelihood of negative things happening to them.
    • Planning fallacy – the tendency to underestimate task-completion times.[30]
    • Post-purchase rationalization – the tendency to persuade oneself through rational argument that a purchase was a good value.
    • Primacy effect – the greater ease of recall of initial items in a sequence compared to items in the middle of the sequence.[42]
    • Pro-innovation bias – the tendency to reflect a personal bias towards an invention/innovation, while often failing to identify limitations and weaknesses or address the possibility of failure.
    • Pseudocertainty effect – the tendency to make risk-averse choices if the expected outcome is positive, but make risk-seeking choices to avoid negative outcomes.[43]
    • Reactance – the urge to do the opposite of what someone wants you to do out of a need to resist a perceived attempt to constrain your freedom of choice.
    • Recency bias – a cognitive bias that results from disproportionate salience of recent stimuli or observations — the tendency to weigh recent events more than earlier events (see also peak-end rule).
    • Recency illusion – the illusion that a phenomenon, typically a word or language usage, that one has just begun to notice is a recent innovation (see also frequency illusion).
    • Regressive Bayesian likelihood – estimates of conditional probabilities are conservative and not extreme enough[44][45]
    • Restraint bias – the tendency to overestimate one’s ability to show restraint in the face of temptation.
    • Selective perception – the tendency for expectations to affect perception.
    • Semmelweis reflex – the tendency to reject new evidence that contradicts a paradigm.[46]
    • Social comparison bias – the tendency, when making hiring decisions, to favour potential candidates who don’t compete with one’s own particular strengths.[47]
    • Status quo bias – the tendency to like things to stay relatively the same (see also loss aversionendowment effect, and system justification).[48][49]
    • Stereotyping – expecting a member of a group to have certain characteristics without having actual information about that individual.
    • Subadditivity effect – the tendency to estimate that the likelihood of an event is less than the sum of its (more than two) mutually exclusive components.[50]
    • Subjective validation – perception that something is true if a subject’s belief demands it to be true. Also assigns perceived connections between coincidences.
    • Unit bias – the tendency to want to finish a given unit of a task or an item. Strong effects on the consumption of food in particular.[51]
    • Well travelled road effect – underestimation of the duration taken to traverse oft-traveled routes and over-estimate the duration taken to traverse less familiar routes.
    • Zero-risk bias – preference for reducing a small risk to zero over a greater reduction in a larger risk.

    Social biases

    Most of these biases are labeled as attributional biases.

    • Actor-observer bias – the tendency for explanations of other individuals’ behaviors to overemphasize the influence of their personality and underemphasize the influence of their situation (see also Fundamental attribution error), and for explanations of one’s own behaviors to do the opposite (that is, to overemphasize the influence of our situation and underemphasize the influence of our own personality).
    • Defensive attribution hypothesis – defensive attributions are made when individuals witness or learns of a mishap happening to another person. In these situations, attributions of responsibility to the victim or harm-doer for the mishap will depend upon the severity of the outcomes of the mishap and the level of personal and situational similarity between the individual and victim. More responsibility will be attributed to the harm-doer as the outcome becomes more severe, and as personal or situational similarity decreases.
    • Dunning–Kruger effect an effect in which incompetent people fail to realise they are incompetent, because they lack the skill to distinguish between competence and incompetence[52]
    • Egocentric bias – occurs when people claim more responsibility for themselves for the results of a joint action than an outside observer would.
    • Forer effect (aka Barnum effect) – the tendency to give high accuracy ratings to descriptions of their personality that supposedly are tailored specifically for them, but are in fact vague and general enough to apply to a wide range of people. For example, horoscopes.
    • False consensus effect – the tendency for people to overestimate the degree to which others agree with them.[53]
    • Fundamental attribution error – the tendency for people to over-emphasize personality-based explanations for behaviors observed in others while under-emphasizing the role and power of situational influences on the same behavior (see also actor-observer biasgroup attribution errorpositivity effect, and negativity effect).[54]
    • Halo effect – the tendency for a person’s positive or negative traits to “spill over” from one area of their personality to another in others’ perceptions of them (see also physical attractiveness stereotype).[55]
    • Illusion of asymmetric insight – people perceive their knowledge of their peers to surpass their peers’ knowledge of them.[56]
    • Illusion of transparency – people overestimate others’ ability to know them, and they also overestimate their ability to know others.
    • Illusory superiority – overestimating one’s desirable qualities, and underestimating undesirable qualities, relative to other people. (Also known as “Lake Wobegon effect,” “better-than-average effect,” or “superiority bias”).[57]
    • Ingroup bias – the tendency for people to give preferential treatment to others they perceive to be members of their own groups.
    • Just-world phenomenon – the tendency for people to believe that the world is just and therefore people “get what they deserve.”
    • Moral luck – the tendency for people to ascribe greater or lesser moral standing based on the outcome of an event rather than the intention
    • Outgroup homogeneity bias – individuals see members of their own group as being relatively more varied than members of other groups.[58]
    • Projection bias – the tendency to unconsciously assume that others (or one’s future selves) share one’s current emotional states, thoughts and values.[59]
    • Self-serving bias – the tendency to claim more responsibility for successes than failures. It may also manifest itself as a tendency for people to evaluate ambiguous information in a way beneficial to their interests (see also group-serving bias).[60]
    • System justification – the tendency to defend and bolster the status quo. Existing social, economic, and political arrangements tend to be preferred, and alternatives disparaged sometimes even at the expense of individual and collective self-interest. (See also status quo bias.)
    • Trait ascription bias – the tendency for people to view themselves as relatively variable in terms of personality, behavior, and mood while viewing others as much more predictable.
    • Ultimate attribution error – similar to the fundamental attribution error, in this error a person is likely to make an internal attribution to an entire group instead of the individuals within the group.
    • Worse-than-average effect – a tendency to believe ourselves to be worse than others at tasks which are difficult[61]

    Memory errors and biases

    Cryptomnesia – a form of misattribution where a memory is mistaken for imagination.Further information: Memory bias
    • Egocentric bias – recalling the past in a self-serving manner, e.g., remembering one’s exam grades as being better than they were, or remembering a caught fish as being bigger than it was.
    • False memory – a form of misattribution where imagination is mistaken for a memory.
    • Hindsight bias – filtering memory of past events through present knowledge, so that those events look more predictable than they actually were; also known as the “I-knew-it-all-along effect.”[25]
    • Positivity effect – older adults remember relatively more positive than negative things, compared with younger adults[62]
    • Reminiscence bump – the effect that people tend to recall more personal events from adolescence and early adulthood than from other lifetime periods.
    • Rosy retrospection – the tendency to rate past events more positively than they had actually rated them when the event occurred.
    • Self-serving bias – perceiving oneself responsible for desirable outcomes but not responsible for undesirable ones.
    • Suggestibility – a form of misattribution where ideas suggested by a questioner are mistaken for memory.
    • Telescoping effect – the effect that recent events appear to have occurred more remotely and remote events appear to have occurred more recently.
    • Von Restorff effect – the tendency for an item that “stands out like a sore thumb” to be more likely to be remembered than other items.

    Common theoretical causes of some cognitive biases

    Methods for dealing with cognitive biases

    Reference class forecasting was developed by Daniel KahnemanAmos Tversky, and Bent Flyvbjerg to eliminate or reduce the impact of cognitive biases on decision making.[65]

    See also

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Behavior and Cognition, a Personal Interlude

When I finally read Walden II by BF Skinner, I hated it. The idea that humans were Pavlovian machines that had such little freedom they could be easily controlled by an external dictator disgusted me to the very bone; his prejudiced ridicule of the philosopher offended me. We aren’t dogs. Yet, we are animals and as my favorite author of youth, Jack London, often showed we could behave worse than dogs pretty damned easily.

His most political book, Martin Eden, was about capitalism reckoning to the boot of the worker. I failed a High School writing competition by writing about the rights of workers when the topic was “Money.” A main judge was a strict Mormon with a whimsey to gentility. I took her class and she grudgingly accepted my good writing though I promoted abortion, mountain climbing, and babies being born fearful, screaming their way to affection. Babies perfect my ass. Poor mothers had good reason to put them on the hillside. Driven by sex, blinded by lust, most US people I knew hadn’t a clue what family was about and how it affected the world. I have had a long love-hate relationship with cognitive versus organic philosophy.

My socially stimulated contrarian nature was soothed by Bertrand Russell who said “It has been said that man is a rational animal. All my life I have been searching for evidence which could support this.” My teachers beat me up because I held a biological view of humanity. Survival of the fittest might not be pleasant but it was accurate. It would be good to not be this way but it was an uphill battle and eventually we would evolve to embody this reasoning if it succeeded without ever doubting that both are material.

It wouldn’t be until 30 years later when I read Christopher Hitchen’s book “Letters to a Young Contrarian” that I could once again feel acceptable in reacting and reasoning against the mores of my family and society that had beat me down so constantly in their conformist righteous purity of resolving problems from within a comfortable, healthy, happy social group such that I could finally write free of my internal philosophical oppression.

I had a slight epiphany at the beginning of the millennium when a family brother-in-law at The Bower dinner table responded to my cynicism that I didn’t think people behaved rationally or even wanted to and I wasn’t sure they should as they probably couldn’t stand it and it would resolve into authoritarian rigidity. That’s when I heard about Daniel Kahneman, the behavioral economist who had recently won the Nobel Prize for showing people do not make economic decisions in their best interest. Swallowing a duh, I socially demurred and listened.

I had been busy living on a boat and lambasting science for being too rigid and moribund in myopic and industrial philandering, screwing the people, now that Reagan had purged independent financing and labs were more like prisons with puppet scientists. Popularizers, like Bateson, crying science was even more true as a process now that research was overturning their conclusions every few years as I was seeing them more corrupt and inefficient than ever before. I didn’t get it was about authority a la religion or freedom a la inquiry. I was out in front swinging at recon’s when the battle was way behind.

The public was held hostage in learned helplessness not knowing what to do because one year we had to diet, the next it was pointless; one year nuclear knowledge would save us, the next it would kill us; one year butter was bad, the next it was OK; one year we all should drink Orange Juice, the next it didn’t matter.

Is it surprising the public turned to crap science as its own antidote to the vicissitudes of politically based research disguised in economic foundations funded by biased wealth? Is it surprising that all I saw everywhere was Marx the hated bearded maniac my wife’s dissertation head cackled over repeating incessantly, effervescently “follow the money” and “whoever buys lunch chooses the menu”?

A year or so later in the quiet dining hall of a Fridley, MN home the same bro-in-law, we seemed to have poignant, salient conversations until he threatened to hit me for a perceived personal insult, asked why I was railing on science so much? In responding I realized I was throwing away the baby with the bathwater; my castigations had salience no longer. That Suzy and Joe Bagodonuts didn’t care about me crying foul all of the time as they just wanted to be happy, make money, and breed like flies. That’s what I wanted too for them, except the overbreeding part; I was just too busy fighting history embodied in the present and missing the point.

The war on science was escalating. Whether science had been disemboweled or shot itself in the foot was pretty irrelevant now as science was being flanked by neoconservativism and the third great awakening claiming we were a Christian nation and then making it so.

I had already decided to vote for a president, against a frivolous protest of conscientious abstinence, in a glimmer of changes to come, or perhaps, for more sex, uhhh, I mean to please my spouse. Unfortunately,  Clinton, who while brilliantly hiring and following Robert Reich created a budget surplus, couldn’t hide his ubiquitous male philandering and hadn’t a clue how to lie about it properly; confess, repent, ask forgiveness, be born again.

Voted twice and been embarrassed twice. How is it that I cannot make intelligent choices and how is it that even if I do it doesn’t seem to matter? No one gets out of here alive!

I was born again but not in receiving religion but in receiving science. Like a wife from which one strays, like a parent to which the prodigal child returns, like the home process in which the walkabout aboriginal resumes, like the familiar garden gate the wanderer sees as new, I began to again assert the scientific method. If only as defense against the barbarian hordes threatening ruination to all I hold dear. Sometimes you just have to be pissed and fight back!

Jim Newman

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Liberal Balm, Reasoning Away Bias

David Di Salvo queried me on my coining of the term “Liberal Balm” in my post on pubcons and liberals talk past each other at www.skepticmoney.com (reposted on this site as well). I had teased:

“You cannot approach them using the same logic. But as a tease, David DiSalvo’s book “What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite” is liberal balm and does deal with new resolutions against computational malfunctions. I just don’t yet see how you get pubcons or liberal intuitionists to care.

There is a lot going on in the article as I was mostly showing how there is little communication, a lot of posturing, and some core differences that are difficult to overcome. Yet, we pay these guys to be professional politicians who should be able to cut through the shit and come to conclusion and actually make necessary decisions like paying bills for which money has already been allocated.

It is impossible to not be pissed at past Obama supporter yet conservative types saying they won’t vote for Obama this time because he has not gotten anything done. Pubcons are now calling Obama “prickly.” With the state of affairs these days and how he is hated, hated, hated, blocked, blocked, blocked, how the hell could he sneeze without someone calling him on it as extreme?

Yet professionals are not immune from biases and the longer you think something is true the harder it is to get out of that rut. You trust it is true more the more times you reinforce its truth in your memory such that new evidence has little chance in hell of being accepted. I think of Linus Pauling the nobel prize winner who incorrectly and incessantly  insisted that Vitamin C could cure the common cold.

When proven wrong over and over again he merely insisted more strongly that one was taking too small a dose. This escalated until a does of 10-12 grams, enough to remove grease from your oven, was necessary. I followed him on this journey, as I have terrible issues with colds, until I was at the 6 gms a day level, when it became obvious to me that Linus was following his faith over the cliff. I say drown him in a vat of Vitamin C. That’ll cure his cold!

This paradox can be met, obviously, or we wouldn’t have success from experts and professionals and division of labor wouldn’t rule. That the solution is insufficient shows because amateurs, auto did acts, and groomed intuition are also successful means to competency.

What do they have in common and why would we care? This is the lynch pin of success to me. The answer hinges on the environment and what it demands of individuals over time.

We tend to think of the environment as extreme. In the dessert plants develop thick skins and puffy interiors and animals look like shaded storage tanks. Yet very subtle changes can wreck havoc on a community. An extra week or so of above average temperature in a borderline Oak forest can be enough to allow insects and rot sufficient advantage to fell the great oaks redefining the morphology of the ecosystem.

Where tooth and nail meet horn and hoof better expresses the delicate balance of competition than the extreme of lions and their prey where lions are so superior to the predated food they can lounge about all day, waiting for insects and disease to be their scourge. Generally, any species expereincing tremendous advantage is waiting lazily while another species is busy preparing. If you are lucky in seeking autonomy you survive into a niche where evolving is less rewarded and stasis happens. Why would you even want that?

The cohesive peaceful authority of a band of chimpanzees can be fully disrupted by a bully personality who happens to find a garbage can lid and then uses that technology to utterly terrorize the entire group such that it can no longer govern itself effectively.

The expedient cutting of the Gordian knot is admittance that there is no time for the solution and they supposedly neither need the rope in one piece nor the solution for something else.

We have had it good in the states. The personality types that defined this country and succeeded still exist and beckon us even though it is no longer true. Tradition, the ashes of past warming fires, needs a stable environment to endure and requires great stress to change. Like a Phoenix new fires emerge from the coals in the ashes until something new smothers the nascent flames.

Individualism, perseverance, and good luck were all that it took to succeed for hundred’s of years during colonial expansion. The righteousness, novelty seeking, and paranoia that pioneers brought from Europe were useful here in this stimulating and resource rich environment that also had a lot of geographical separation.

Now, there is less economic mobility here than in Europe by half. Whereas a short few years ago pluck and initiative could elevate 1 of 4 to a higher position it is now 1 of 8. It is no longer enough to persevere and do hard work and keep an eye out for opportunity. In fact it doesn’t matter if you are a team player, conforming, and safety oriented as no new stability-rewarding ladder has fully developed as in tradition bound societies, historically oriental as the obvious example.

What I am saying is colonialism benefited explorers, adventurers, walking idealists; those carrying absolutist ideologies that could overcome pluralistic experiences. Once the technology got you moving material success was the reward.

Now there are no more lands to exfoliate, villages to plunder, and women to rape. As Marvin Harris rightly notes the warrior without battles to win no longer gets the first serving of meat and women.

We live in a confusing period where adventurous rapacity is no longer able to achieve greater economic success. Personality types able to endure less, work in moribund teams, and create nuanced innovation have greater success. This isn’t entirely true but more so than in the past. So much so that the conflict rises to our consciousness and reasoning  rather than to our reactions and intuitions, as well as the varying personality types.

Only a modern journalist would ask John Wayne why he thinks everything is black and white. Only when black and white doesn’t succeed for many does the question occur. My Forestry professor in college insisted aspiring loggers  have a relationship with a single tree, worth half of their grade, but he still loved hunting and used that as the great example against his peacenik stance.

He often referred to how he used to think in black and white and now he saw gray everywhere. It was not appreciated when I tried to point out that gray was merely black and white at a finer resolution such that it only appeared as gray because his focus was not less fine than before but there were many more dots that could be black or white; his focus hadn’t changed, his field had filled with more dots. This manifold acuity blurred his larger less acute moral resolutions!

The inherent biases within us aren’t necessarily embodied mistakes though some may be. They are often the leftovers of past useful decision making processes, conscious and unconscious. Some bodily functions like an appendix are no longer needed (even that is in question), and others like quick thinking still are as demonstrated by Gladwell’s book Blink but quick thinking can also lead to hasty and bad conclusions; it can also save your life if you misinterpret the stranger jumping in front of you.

Which biases are which? Well rugged individualism, in spite of grand High Tech stories like Gates, Buffet, and Jobs, is less successful. Living with less, working in group communication, and spending time in quiet activities that dissolve stress may engender greater happiness.

What’s well being got to do with it? Whether it makes you happy or not. Whether you should be an ascetic or voracious. Whether you should be stoic or epicurean. Whether you are an extrovert or an introvert. Personality assessment is now going to help you choose a path and help you better communicate and hence succeed in the cubicle world. The role models of the past no longer work. It’s not that we just prefer vampire stories to westerns we want different types of heroes doing what we perceive now as more moral actions.

It is more difficult now to self select to an appropriate niche. Tradition-based societies have well known means of selecting to fit. Colonialism allowed mobility through domination and resource access. We have succeeded somewhat by creating virtual identities, virtual communities, and virtual rewards but not enough to gain real material success or real satisfaction from our personality no matter what it is. Social and economic mobility cut through class stratification and spread the wealth.

Liberal balm is a way to remediate the biases we all have but since I am a liberal I see it as a way to remediate the biases of pubcons and intuitionist liberals. Intuitionist liberals being those who feel things but never have examined or trained their feelings to be more acute or expanded them beyond their domain. Yes, a namby pamby artsy feeling type has something in common with the gun slinging squinty eyed authority dude.

You can “feel in your gut” or “think from your heart.” Both deny the utility of reasoning to develop more accurate reactions. Now an expert or professional may use these terms but they mean after careful and usually painful analysis, with maybe thousands of hours of work they can now use autopilot to succeed; and they still recalibrate using instruments. That’s why these two phrases are so ubiquitous. The meaning is so wide as to accommodate at least three contrasting views with all of them having salience in the quick thinking of the present.

You can sail the ocean blue using a compass or you can constantly assess your position relative to home by looking to wind, wave, and stars; white man or Polynesian?

Bias control has a liberal bent as classically, liberals reflect, think, and make well considered opinions. A trained liberal will look at both sides, argue from both sides, look at their peers’ conclusions, and constantly seek new information.

Liberal balm embraces these methods of healing bias damage. It gives the brain more time and the necessary reflection, conscious or not, to correct bias.

It is also liberal because it is helpful against over-analysis types of biases. Your brain gets sore or is in a rut from too much rumination and liberal balm protects from over thinking if there is such a thing. Sometimes action is necessary and depression can immobilize as well as activate though we hope that by immobilization action will ultimately occur; I am also thinking of liberal balm on OCD types of mental soreness, rumination. Cognitive therapy was first successful on OCD types; if you think saying over and over in your mind “I don’t need to keep this plastic cup” is a good use of mental time.

If it itches, scratch it. If it makes you happy do it. Follow your passion. Blah, blah, blah. If you are conservative. Do what’s right. Keep at it. Ignore obstacles. Both sides have impetus that drive success in environments that require these varying attributes. Liberal balm would be the methods and  means necessary to make your own personal biases more successful in their current environment. In other words some personalities already include certain bias remediation that others don’t and vice versa. Which is why Watson said good science mostly involved socializing and Crick said it mostly involved hard thinking.

I am not a fan of Martin Seligman who started the positive psychology movement. I much prefer Barbara Ehrenreich the myth buster and antidote to positive psychology. But they both play the publishing game to promote better thinking. And the goal has always been greater success.

Which is why I immediately bought David DiSalvo’s book “What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite.”

Is it no surprise that we are returning to a kind of stoicism when what makes us happy no longer promotes well being. Drinking too much kills us, siting around kills us, eating too much food kills us, too much pain medicine kills us, too much depressive navel gazing kills us, too much TV and computer viewing kills us, too much letting it all hang out kills us, just hanging out with negatives or negative thoughts kills us. Everywhere we turn what we love is killing us. It just seems so immediate and yet as a whole we live longer and better than ever before by far! Another bias endemic to most. The my life is the worst bias.

Life is becoming a constant state of self control and mental readjustment to get us to like whole wheat better than white flour, conversation better than action, and restraint rather than indulgence. This is not balance, this is asceticism.

It would be more fair to categorize many biases as what’s needed now versus later. Yet, what later? We also need to be happy now or at least not suicidal so we can at least breed ourselves to replacement, and now the new improved model does more! Is that 10 years, 20 years, 40 years, 70 years? If science of longevity continues that could be 100 years. What kind of mental gymnastics do we need if we actually can choose to be 120?

It is a long Western banal belief that suffering today to be happy tomorrow is the most important goal in life. That a long life is better than a short life all things being equal. Since when in our dirty reality are all things equal ever?

It’s not that we can have a few drinks a day or a couple of pain pills or a few donuts or a rant or two. No, all of these are to be removed from our canvas of consumption. We are to remake our genetic inclinations mute to bias control and liberal balm is the way to do it. Or is it market economy where people are asking for a liberal balm to achieve self desired but unobtained success? Does it merely meet the need irregardless, an economy?

Can liberal balm like chapstick create its own addiction by making sure the lips stay chapped and need more chapstick? Does it really compete well against personalities already encompassing the antidote to a particular bias? Why should we care to change a bias influence unless we buy into extending life beyond reasonable reproduction, or economic success beyond survival?

These are my questions. Stay tuned.

Jim Newman

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Democrats and Republicans Talk Past Each Other

 The Santorum family is taking a lot of heat in the press for their “do as I say, not as I do”family culture. Karen considered abortion while hubby worked to deny it. Rick wants the government to restrict access to contraceptives, force schools to educate extramarital sex is a sin, and criminalize abortion providers. Now it’s revealed that Karen lived with a boyfriend out of wedlock for nearly a decade in her twenties. And her boyfriend was an abortion provider.

The press is gleefully ignoring the general historical state of pubcon hypocrisy and hysterically reacting to their transgressions as signs that pubcons cannot differentiate personal belief from public policy. Liberals think if pubcons are to have such a standard they must themselves follow it.

Pubcons have reacted defensively at this attack and in some sort of Jedi mind trick are saying the past is history, people make mistakes, they are repentant, let’s move on, there’s nothing happening here.

But there is and it is an entire misunderstanding of how pubcons and liberals think differently about the world and morality. Their communication to each other, as brilliantly demonstrated by the current DC politics, in posturing and talking past individuals to the ideological bleachers behind. Both sides plead for consistency, purity, and insist they are true to their belief, faith, ideals, reasons, whatever. Obama is stuck like a duck in the middle and it would be no surprise if he were caught late at night wandering the White House halls in hebephrenic hysteria!

The new Tea Party representatives are particularly green as many of them came from nonpolitical backgrounds and haven’t a clue what political maneuvering and compromise means. As if politics were the expression of purity when politics is the dirty and brutish intermingling of disagreeable people feigning politeness to get their constituent’s desires realized.

I saw no greater paradox and irony than Orrin Hatch and the late Ted Kennedy sitting together and sharing a joke, a conversation, and what Hatch called “a tremendous brotherly affection.” Politically, it was the most intelligent action both of them could take. If it were sincere all the better. Imagine the required compartmentalization.

All they needed in their coffee klatch was the late Paul Wellstone and Strom Thurmond, the former the most liberal representative in recent history and Strom the arch nemesis of civil rights who led the longest solo filibuster in history.

No, as I am formulating over at www.frontiersofreason.com both sides are reasonable and true to their premises. You cannot approach them using the same logic. But as a tease, David DiSalvo’s book “What Makes Your Brain Happy and Why You Should Do the Opposite” is liberal balm and does deal with new resolutions against computational malfunctions. I just don’t yet see how you get pubcons or liberal intuitionists to care.

Liberals believe in individual rights, fairness, and equality. Pubcons believe in group cohesion, obedience, and certainty. As Jonathon Haidt notes in The Edge

“People vote Republican because Republicans offer “moral clarity”—a simple vision of good and evil that activates deep seated fears in much of the electorate. Democrats, in contrast, appeal to reason with their long-winded explorations of policy options for a complex world.”

Yet, liberals love art reflecting good and evil, from Star Wars to Vampire Diaries; how on earth does an atheist stand the constant, banal appeal to “the force?” Daniel Everett responds to Haidt by relating an interview with John Wayne:

“They tell me that things aren’t always black and white. I say, ‘Why the hell not?’”

Cognitive science sheds some light on this:

“conservatism is a partially heritable personality trait that predisposes some people to be cognitively inflexible, fond of hierarchy, and inordinately afraid of uncertainty, change, and death.”

This explains why Ron Reagan’s son is a gay atheist and why Madeleine Murray O’Hare’s son was a born again Christian. While children are most likely to not fall too far from the tree their genetics have their own mind, so to speak. Perhaps epigenesis as well, the rolling thunder of genetically embodied decisions based on external, environmental factors.

This genopolitcs, for example, has demonstrated that genetic predispositions of conformity versus creativity and their resulting serotonin and dopamine release affect political party and religious affiliation. Republicans because of their genetics are more likely to go to church, join a political party, and vote. Democrats tend to be more creative, more novelty seekers, and hence a little bit more antisocial. Let me put it this way: it really does no good to call pubcons sheep, or liberals extremists. It’s not pejorative, they are compliments.

Conservatives feel like they should vote and liberals think they should vote. Conservatives don’t get why they should use reason to overcome their strong visceral sentiments and liberals don’t get why conservatives don’t use reason to overcome their gut feelings. Conservatives use an appeal to authority as moral light and liberals want to think out their choices.

Perhaps this is because conservatives would have to fight an addictive rush to change their gut feeling while liberals are yielding to an addictive rush by thinking out issues.

Interesting how “follow your gut” or “think from your heart” tend to cross the boundary.

The value of group think in corporations is obvious. In situations such as the regimented battlefield instant obedience has merit. In situations requiring creativity, teamwork, cooperation, and conformity kill necessary innovation; as would also happen in guerrilla warfare on fresh terrain.

You can’t be a team player if the goal is to find something different and further from what the team is currently experiencing. Brain storming is social masturbation, and the real creativity comes before or after the meeting with individual and person-to-person communication. Good meetings, if creativity and productivity are the desired goals, are basically rubber stamps of ideas engendered and politicized elsewhere.

Heber C Kimball past president of the Mormon church and considered to be a modern prophet, as they are wont to do, was known to swear freely from the pulpit. This common manner made him one of the most beloved of church leaders though it marked him. His reply: “Hell, they can’t excommunicate me. I repent too damned fast.”

This is key to understanding pubcon inconsistency. When your morals relate to an absolute authority involving obedience, and group adhesion there must be a way to be inconsistent, avoid cognitive dissonance, and yet remain pure and included. The confessional, repentance, and absolution of sins allows anyone to recover from any transgression and remain within the absolutely necessary fold.

It is terrifying for liberals to think someone can do the most heinous crimes all of their life, as an extreme example, and still, at their death bed, ascend to goodness and moral inclusion by asking for forgivance. Liberals think responsibility and truth are important but to pubcons, inclusion and abeyance are important.

If you wonder which side you are on consider Pascal’s wager. Would you repent at death or would you remain true? Now as Bertrand Russell noted it is really quite rare that this case occurs in reality. It occurs much more early in life when an atheist stays in the closet for the sake of family and society as might a gay, a pedophile, or a so called Uncle Tom.

When you read Hitchens’ Letter to a Young Contrarian do you have an epiphany or do your say yuck?

Sam Harris in his essay “Lying” chastises sweetly and demurly those who lie for conformity or politeness; that people typically diminish their own well being for this process. He is clear: it is near always better to be honest even if it requires masterful mental gymnastics. For many, this simply does not ring true as Mark Twain says well:

“The lie, as a virtue, a principle, is eternal; the lie, as a recreation, a solace, a refuge in time of need, the fourth Grace, the tenth Muse, man’s best and surest friend is immortal.”

Mark had his finger on the pulse of the people. Rather than risk familial friction, rather than leave their home, rather than disrespect their society, roughly half of us, if politics are correct, will lie out out their ass, eloquently, consistently, and happily with the rush of inclusion and social love.

The other half listen to a different drummer and follow Thoreau:

“Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also a prison.

No, for pubcons and closeted liberals, Machiavellianism is the proper way to expand principle while preserving peace, and no good action occurs from within a cell.

These basic differences define personality types expressed politically as liberal and conservative. Without some sort of geopolitical apartheid it is going to be difficult to mediate consensus towards a future requiring just that. I do not have a good answer yet but I also know in better defining the problem we get closer to the solution.

Jim Newman

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Conservatives and Liberals, Why So Different? A Ground Work

Congressional approval hit a record low of 9% this year. The Huffington post cackles that more people approve of polygamy than their representation.

The last few days are filled with news of Republican candidate Rick Santorum and his family. They are taking a lot of heat in the press for their “do as I say, not as I do” family culture. Karen considered abortion while hubby worked to deny it. Rick wants the government to restrict access to contraceptives, force schools to educate extramarital sex is a sin, and criminalize abortion providers. Now it’s revealed that Karen lived with a boyfriend out of wedlock for nearly a decade in her twenties. And her boyfriend was an abortion provider.

How did this happen? The press is gleefully ignoring the general historical state of conservative hypocrisy and hysterically reacting to their transgressions as signs that conservatives cannot differentiate personal belief from public policy. Liberals think if conservatives are to have such a standard they must themselves follow it.

Conservatives have reacted defensively to this attack and in some sort of Jedi mind trick are saying the past is history, people make mistakes, they are repentant, let’s move on, there’s nothing happening here.

Yet, it is not news at all. Politics has always been a dirty, dirty business. In 1804 the former Secretary of Treasury Alexander Hamilton had a duel with Vice President Aaron Burr. Burr shot and fatally wounded Hamilton. Why? It was the end of a long and bitter conflict between Democrat-Republicans and Federalists.

First Burr won a senate seat in 1791. When the electoral college deadlocked inn 1800, yes close elections are not new, Hamilton’s maneuvering supposedly won Jefferson the presidency and Burr the vice presidency. Hamilton is credited with writing a highly critical letter of John Adams, the Federalist incumbant who lost the 1800 election. The founding fathers barely agreed on no church in state but did not agree over federalism. The original constitution the Articles of Confederation limited the authority of government such they could not make major decisions without a unanimous vote. The inability of the government to muster up money and men to squash Shay’s Rebellion made it clear to many the government needed more power.

It was Washington and the creation of the Federalist papers by Hamilton and Madison that convinced the citizens to ratify the constitution. However anti-federalist sentiment ran high mostly among local commerce and finance types who opposed the plantation and farm-based founding fathers. Their main concern was the lack of a promised Bill of Rights. So, in 1789,  12 amendments were submitted and 10 were passed in 1791.

It didn’t end here. Hamilton promoting agrarianism and strong government over mercantilism waged battle against the anti-federalist who feared debt from the new government would bankrupt the country. Sound familiar? 71% of Thomas Jefferson’s supporters in Virginia had been anti-federalists while 29% had been supportive of the new constitution. The defeat of John Adams, the staunch federalist, resulted in  the duel. Anti-fedseralism’s last dying breath until modern times was in 1814 when New England threatened secession during the war of 1812 but the war’s end took the wind from its sails.

If you think dishonesty in American politics has a short history, reconsider. In the 1840 election William Henry Harrison, the son of the long standing Berkley plantation, was promoted by the Whig party over the more controversial Webster and Clay. Democrats cast Harrison as a provincial out-of-touch old man who would rather “sit in his cabin drinking hard cider” than work. Well Harrison took the bit in his mouth and adopted the log cabin and cider symbol and emphasized that Harrison was a common man, a humble frontiersman like the popular Andrew Jackson:

Old Tip he wore a homespun coat, he had no ruffled shirt: wirt-wirt,
But Matt he has the golden plate, and he’s a little squirt: wirt-wirt!

When sung you spit tobacco at the end. With the slogan “Tippecanoe and Tyler too” Harrison won by a landslide electoral vote proving you could lie your ass off and either no one would know or no one would care.

The civil war amplified lying to a  fevered pitch and it should be remembered the goal of any campaign is to show the opposition promotes the exact reverse of what it is saying. The Northern abolitions cried biblical support for slavery when the South was more true to the book by insisting the bible supported slavery, yes by some 200 proslavery tolerance references.

More than any other time the civil warn years proved you didn’t have to be accurate or honest in the least to win. Democracy, or war, is at core all about winning. The humanism of it is external. A falsehood promoted as true is historically a truth as told by the winners. So much so in the Civil war that scholars today still spar over whether it was states rights, slavery, culture, or economics that motivated the war.

How is it that we can’t even know or agree what caused this great war where 23,000 people could die in one day at Antietem?

Jim Newman

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A Third and Final Review of “Lying” by Sam and Ananka Harris

“Lying” was helpful in exposing the false utility and convenience of lying by emphasizing the near ubiquitous ability to respond honestly in situations that seem to require lying. It emphasizes the excessive cost in trust, autonomy, and relation.

It is a quick moral eulogy of honesty, trust, and integrity, discussing lies and the many situations in which we lie and why we shouldn’t and don’t need to desire to. It made me more confident to seek truth. It challenged me to go back and reread Kant, Spinoza, Augustine, Aristotle, Machiavelli, Mill, Russell, Wittgenstein and introduced me to Sissela Bok. Should we never ever lie or is it just another language game we need to learn better?

We hedge truth in situations of war, spying, personal harm, and other agreed upon language games. Notably magic shows and poker playing. This last area gets gray quickly. When do both parties get that it is a language game and how does that game get perceived outside the circle?

They did leave me hanging on unjust laws and whether it is OK to lie to save yourself from exposure when disobeying laws one strongly considers unjust.  Whether this means exposure in drugs, abortions, market regulations, state-based prayer, being nude in public, having sex with animals, or euthanasia? The social shock of the misbehavior and the personal risk involved vary tremendously. A nod to Thoreau, Ed Abbey, Wendell Berry, ML King or Malcolm X would be nice as civil disobedience is a common and difficult moral dilemma.

We see this slanderous boundary of truth and civil disobedience stretched thin right now.  Tea Party types think bringing assault weapons to Town Hall meetings and then Washington is cool but camping out on wall street and protesting financial mismanagement treasonous and violent. Hank Williams Jr can say Obama is Hitler,and should not play golf with a republican (no fraternizing with the enemy) but the Dixie Chicks can’t diss the Iraq war while in another country. Integrity or hypocrisy? Lying or sincerity? Deception or exposure?

Perceived unfairness may also be a cheap excuse. I’ll lie on taxes because they are unfair or shouldn’t exist. No one cares if I illegally park here. They wouldn’t hear me anyway. Sam and Ananka make room for self deception but plea for some sort of introspective self correction.

Miss Manners and nearly all but the duty-based ethicists (Kant, Spinoza) forgive any manner of so called white lies; social harm, private space, safety and security, relation preservation, and omissions.

Omissions. It just doesn’t get more tricky. While discussed as permissible they still seem prohibited. It is a huge category of lying. Where on the scale are you? The didacticism of spill your guts with constant opinions or don’t say nothing even as the train is rolling down the track towards your friend, foe, or unknown stranger from another land?

Gotta admit the whole thing sounded like a Catholic or Jewish set of admonitions with a lot of exceptions and forgivance of transgression. Makes me consider the metaethics of transgressions and taboos as allowed exceptions to either extreme. Sam always has a gentle way of asking us to consider something when he really means do it! Even their practical admonition that it takes too much thinking and memory to maintain the false story over time. My mother’s favorite “it takes too much work to lie.”

I found their position an interesting nexus of collusion of disparate rules where the harshness of duty meets utilitarianism or a guideline, with soft interpretations, to avoid lying with room for individual variance and situational exceptions. But always in the background that plea to not lie.

In discussing biases many people seem to be lying when they are deathly sincere but delusional or they base their opinion on an original deceit now forgotten or integrated as a truth. How do we assess the intent here? The simultaneous rational awareness and continuance of lying is less cognitive if experienced as ideology that may have its source in a known lie but the lie is a long ago buried in unpolled memory. In other words the original issue might be one doesn’t want to regulate the market but the lie is there isn’t global warming. The original deceit is the Bible is the truth but the lie is evolution is impossible on a species level. Do you think the Heartland, Cato, Enterprise, and Discovery institutes think they are lying or believe in different premises, sometimes deeply buried, that generate the lies automatically which they then can follow sincerely?

This plea to consider biases and accommodations seems suited to the secular and theological moderates that live their dishonest lives with sincerity. This book follows well “Letter to a Christian Nation.” Their plea attacks most big lies such as vaccination, climate, and drugs. A great example of the plea for honest introspection was an article, “Rabbit Hole Economics, in NYT by Paul Krugman “The Great Recession should have been a huge wake-up call. Nothing like this was supposed to be possible in the modern world. Everyone, and I mean everyone, should be engaged in serious soul-searching, asking how much of what he or she thought was true actually isn’t.”

A final note. Nietzsche’s notion that love occurs beyond good and evil still rings true. Love is a-moral. it is the most dangerous emotion and its value lies in the suspension of rational and even emotive force. A blind extension of trust and loyalty. It is an overwhelming synthesis of nearly all deep thoughts induced by intimacy and dramatic inclusion. I am still not sure how to digest this dangerous dilemma in the specific. I will be as honest as possible.

In the end it comes down to humaneness and integrity. Rather than do not lie, it is avoid lying. You can often be honest when you think you can’t.

Sissela Bok’s book “Lying, Moral Choice in Public and Private Life” is a great place to go after here.

Copyright 2012 Jim Newman

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Stephen Pinker’s The Better Angels of Our Nature

“It’s the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine” (1987 hit by R.E.M.). There is a tendency for generations to envision aporia, endgame, or final justice. I tend to see it as the need for every generation to recreate the world and have it as its own. FL Watkins claimed that while we were the first generation physically able to sterilize the world through nuclear annihilation, many societies could visualize the utter collapse of their world as they knew it. Bounded by geology or geography or all-inclusive culture or even dispersed by diaspora, the end of the world was near and total in finality. Many of my friends bemoan often the horrible increase of violence today. They fear kidnapping, rape, and murder as if it were imminent and lock their kids inside or trade them from car to car, door to door.

Pinker demonstrates with some 200 charts and graphs and 800 pages of text we are in a decrease of violence. Violence has been declining for the last several thousand years. Tribal warfare was 9 times greater than 20th century violence. The murder rate in medieval Europe was 30 times greater than today. It’s working! I am relieved and optimistic. I was born with the polarity of nuclear discovery. Nuclear power could eliminate all hunger and energy needs, forever. Nuclear bombs could sterilize the earth, in an hour.

For all of our modern fear of increasing kidnapping, rape, murder and war now seems to be the best time to live. But I have to say Pinker comes across as a secular jew of European descent with all of its fandom of western civilization. Late in the book in the subchapter “Reflections” Pinker notes “A loathing of modernity is one of the great constants of contemporary social criticism.  Whether the nostalgia is for small-town intimacy, ecological sustainability, communitarian solidarity, family values, religious faith, primitive communism, or harmony with the rhythms of nature, everyone longs to turn back the clock. What has technology given us they say, but alienation, despoliation, social pathology, the loss of meaning, and a consumer culture that is destroying the planet to give us McMansions, SUVs, and Reality Television?”

Durkheim is useful in discussing the biases and strengths of a society that allow it to endure and then terminate for the wrong reasons. Moral foundations induce cultural biases but overall improve social stability. When we expect thriving because of resource availability we often see demise because of ideology. This is cultural suicide. It can be shown by the BIg Lies of today. Global warming doesn’t exist because if it did we might have to take responsibility, we might have to regulate, we might have to suffer economic change. Overpopulation may ruin us but we can’t regulate birth, technology will save us, and we might abort a Little Einstein. Resources will never end. Prices will raise and the market adapt. The Club of Rome was wrong. We still have titanium reserves or we will go to Carbon fiber.

Yet, there is less violence. Even more. We have had a world food surplus. The workplace is so rich we have OSHA laws and unions are being negated; 40 hr work weeks and mandatory safety equipment for the smallest of particulate matter. We have a black president named Obama. Yes, the financial crisis is a zoo but no one has killed President Obama or Jon Stewart, the acerbic comic newscaster. Is violence a sign of well being? If no one were killed but everyone were oppressed? Are 4 billion chronically sick people better than 100,000 dieing a year?

The last sentimental card drawn after many debates has been the profusion of violence in modern times. The lack of well being rooted in the physicality of violence. Yet, violence by any measure has gone down considerably. Writers who have noted the decrease in violence express puzzlement as to why. Tempting to reach for a nebulous divinity, cosmic author, almost magic, or higher power as Robert Wright infers and received Templeton prize for it with its theological emphasis. Rather, Stephen asserts “forces of modernity–reason, science, humanism, individual rights” are the cause for this peripatetic but nevertheless positive trajectory towards peace.

Be that as it may, the question does become whether societies always go to the Malthusian extreme with abandon or do they determine cultural ways to balance population and postpone the seeming inevitable? Pinker’s most interesting point is that societies destroy each other not because they lack resource. They develop conflicting ideologies for which they are willing to die. This point demonstrated is worth the price of the book!

The beginning spends considerable time demonstrating the violence of the past. For most historians it doesn’t take much critical examination to get that rape, murder, slavery, kidnapping, and physical abuse were plentiful as found in the archaeology and literature of the past whether biblical, greco-roman, medieval chivalry, or even hunter-gatherer societies.

Hunter-gatherer societies in particular raise sentiment to a high fever. It is tempting to extrapolate the journals of the early Spaniards eulogizing specific HG cultures like the Coastal California, Florida, and Japanese areas where resources remained plentiful and various tribes, Chumash, Ohlone, and PreCalusa lived the good life; though they traded off death by warfare with, for example, death and maiming by grizzly attacks, the biggest killer of California Coastal Native Americans. HG societies having found internal peace may still be plagued by other contingencies of their environment and ideology. Tempting too to extrapolate the low hours required by HG societies to sustain themselves, 2-4 hrs per day versus the 10-12 of modern man. Would you trade a life duration of 40 versus 70 if you only had to work 2-4 hrs per day?

But these examples do not scale or universalize easily and their exceptionalism is notable as means of supporting potential benefits but also require geographic, geologic, and cultural boundaries not likely to ever be seen again. Alfred Kroeber, the anthropologist also tempted to universalize western values, notes in the over 1,000 tribes of California tribes cultural mores range from slavery to freedom, money to barter, peace to full warfare, stability to nomadism. This hodge podge of cultures serves as excellent idea sources but not as scalable models easily obtained by modern society. The Society of Primitive Technology and works by Norm Kidder and Pegg Mathewson as well as myself have shown the ease of living off the land but that may be irrelevant to the contingencies of living together. Living in a resource rich area does not guarantee the good life.

While there are paradigmatic examples of a less intensive life style with a surplus of free time for gaming, story-telling, and time consuming functional art work it is no guarantee against violence. For years I listened to the debate about Anasazi and cliff dwellers. Whether those painful cliff climbs were for defense or some perverse kind of architecture. It has been with great difficulty that even trained anthropologists could accept such ritualized violence. We deeply want to believe in an Eden, primitive purity, at some time or that humans are basically peaceful but easily corrupted. Consider the rejection of Lorenz’s Territorial Imperative or Adler’s will to power. Such a dream is a balm to the everyday violence we experience and see as our own and worse than all before.

Hobbes exaggerated the solitary tooth and fang aspect of the precivilized world. Frankly the pedantic western notion of preenlightenment savagery aggrandized colonialism. It is questionable whether we had a right to dominate the planet and whether it was worthwhile. The accidental and intentional transmission of disease and inappropriate flaura and fauna to the rest of the world has repercussions not translated as violence but nevertheless caustic to the world’s environments and peoples. One wonders if Pinker counts the many many people killed by these things not directly held by a human hand in wanton aggression. Pinker notes how quickly a city resorts to looting or violence when the lights go out or the police aren’t present as if we caged humans are coiled springs of violence compressed fitfully in our civilization. One wonders how to deal with the fact of rampant inequities not yet met and the chronic anger and depression incurred. To be fair Pinker often notes some of these issues but seems to go on in an all’s well that end’s well panacea to good feeling about western civ.

Even the noted pimatologist Jane Goodal hoped her chimps were peaceful but they weren’t and she relates a horrifying incident where a just ruler is overthrown by a thug who figures out how to scare the crap out of his tribe by clanging and chasing members with a stolen garbage can lid.

It is not at all clear that humans have been a blessing to this planet and one cannot help but sympathize with the Jewish joke that if god had a house on earth people would throw rocks through his windows. Only if we assume a grand design of benevolent human domination can we accept our fate. Many religiously inclined deny this and state emphatically the arrogant and indulgent belief the earth was made for man whether in toto pristine or destroyed and left in waste as we colonize other planets as the secularist physicist Stephen Hawkins recommends. Leaving these serious concerns aside… We are here and we need to make the best of it.

Pinker quotes Hobbes commenting on the logic of violence of one intelligent species to another “So that in the nature of man, we find three principles of quarrel. First competition; secondly diffidence; thirdly, glory. The first maketh men invade for gain; the second for safety; and the third for reputation. The first use violence, to make themselves masters of other men’s persons, wives, children, and cattle; the second to defend them; the third. for trifles, as a word, a smile, a different opinion, and any other sign of undervalue, either direct in their persons or by reflection in their kindred, their friends, their nation, their profession, or their name.”

Hobbes’ solution is that a tyrant of the most vicious sort is better than precivilized life. His contempt and fear of nature is replete and many modern people see it that way as well. He completely misses the boat for democracy and commerce as amelioration but nails the psychological problem on its head. Reputation is the most critical aspect most undervalued as a human motivator. It is not resource depletion so much that encourages internal warfare but the unabated zeal for reputation and status as a means of ensuring competitive and defensive success over time. While R. Buckminster Fuller said boredom breeds creativity it is not true unless within a structure of accomplishment. Boredom leads to negative group dynamics. Time needs to be filled with activity or humans turn to each other for entertainment and it is often cruel and vicious to preserve or enhance reputation.

Jim Riggs ran an aboriginal living skills program where individuals learn HG material culture and then survive on the land in the resource depleted Northwestern open spaces, the only nonprivate free nature to be found. It is a twisted unreal and difficult game as the skills involved take time to learn for expertise and the environment is bleak; any native american would survive quickly and easily. Nevertheless there is considerable leisure time. I have met a number of these students, some Phd anthropologists, and the complaint I heard the most was not being hungry, not being tired, but the difficulty of group dynamics.

In the end the greatest difficulty of living together is interpersonal relationship. Jared Diamond writes of an annual meeting between tribes and notes an exceptionally difficult period when a wronged member repeatedly, annually, raised anger of a past wrong to the group. For the sake of the reputation of a single member the only intertribal meeting a year is hijacked by one grievous member. Other family members, peacemakers, assuage the wrong feeling but with difficulty. This is full democracy and is reminiscent of the dysfunctional premodern Polish democratic government that had to disband when a member disagreed. Consensus has its price.

Resource rich tribes of the Pacific Northwest arrived at a culture of totem and potlatch one upmanship where status was raised to the pitch of the impoverishment of families by giving away everything and more. No longer the hunter coming home and sharing the meat but a drive to wanton excess no different than the missionaries in the America’s plundering all resource and capital to destitution to render ever larger missions in an absurd competition to have the biggest dick, uhh I mean mission. The former no longer having anything to do with egalitarianism and the latter having nothing to do with God’s word. It has been physically painful for me to visit these missions. I try to see the physical beauty. Instead I hear the groans of pummeled bodies, see the crimson color of flagellated flesh, and feel the denigration of my worth for another’s. I don’t understand why they come in, light a candle, and pray.

Pinker notes Laura Betzig who has shown that “complex societies tend to fall under the control of despots; leaders who are guaranteed to get their way in conflicts, who can kill with impunity, and who have large harems of women at their disposal.” Pinker adds “People were less likely to become victims of homicide or casualties of war, but they were now under the thumbs of tyrants, clerics, and kleptomaniacs.” Not until the enlightenment, democracy, and individual rights will there be a cultural ideology that lowers the desire for violence.

Glossing over several dense chapters discussing the flow of violence Pinker resets his path in “Inner Demons”. Sadism, Masochism, ostracizing, excommunication, all contribute to violence yet seem to be part of the nature of man. It is tempting to either say someone is evil or they are the victim of their passions. Neither is correct. A keen insight is revenge, the policeman and cretin henchman of reputation.

In various experiments and games revenge does have an advantage but only at cost. “Revenge can work as a deterrent only if the avenger has a reputation for being willing to avenge and a willingness to carry it out even when it is costly.” The better other side of reputation is just punishment.

Pinker quotes Daly and Wilson “The enormous volume of mystico-religious bafflegab about atonement and penance and divine justice and the like is the attribution to higher, detached authority of what is actually a mundane pragmatic matter; discouraging self-interested competitive acts by reducing their profitability to nil.” The danger is the escalation of revenge. Innocence is exaggerated as is their adversary’s malice. Heuristic biases have a home in all of us and as our reasoning escalates the conflict of conscious and conscience also escalates.  We aren’t reasonable and you don’t have to be be a psychopath or sociopath to not get the punishment as aversion versus oppression.

Too often we punish more and more severely way past the pragmatic end of prevention. The way out “The desire for revenge is most easily modulated when the perpetrator falls within our natural circle of empathy. We are apt to forgive our kin and close friends for trespasses that would be unforgivable in others. And when our circle of empathy expands…our circle of of forgivability expands with it”

Men strive for dominance. People are overconfident of their success. In contests of dominance parties are no longer sorted by merit. People can overcome the revulsion of violence but seek it and privatize it as in S & M games and worse. They spread the pain like a meme. Getting the word out has no intrinsic merit; it is merely an inherent communication channel. “And people can avow a belief they don’t hold purely because they think everyone else avows it; such beliefs can sweep through a closed society and bring it under the spell of collective delusion.” Like a bad story on Facebook and Twitter expansive communication does not define the content. Just because you are talking doesn’t mean you are saying anything.

The chapter “Better Angels” is a pleasure to read. It is the optimist’s antidote. The optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds and the pessimist is afraid that it is true. What is it that has allowed us to reject violence? What are the underlying forces of democracy, commerce, and individual rights that make them work? It’s not be happy but I am happy because there are good things present.

Empathy, sympathy, understanding, and compassion all encourage the expanding circle of self. The facile mantra of oneness is annoying but its merit is the desire for inclusion. Pinker rightly notes “What really has expanded is not so much a circle of empathy as a circle of rights–a commitment that other living things, no matter how distant or dissimilar, be safe from harm or exploitation.”

The great side of modern times is that science, reason, democracy, and commerce open the interhuman channels that enable better solutions by eliminating excessive bias. Trust, justice, and an expanding circle of inclusion allows us to be horrified at the death of the other. Even in resource depletion we now see the essential need to forge peace. We even seek what John Rawls calls, in his revision of A Theory of Justice, an overlapping consensus, the disparate source of an agreed upon common action where we agree for different nay contrary reasons. An atheist and theist may both seek the same law for opposing reasons. Do we really all have to agree?

Peter Singer does not use empathy or emotion to expand the circle of self though Singer coined the phrase. Reason is sufficient. It is reason that expands the circle beyond self, family, nation, and species and not rubbing shoulders or the imagining of rubbing shoulders. It makes sense to include others. He is a utilitarian and while rich with calculation it does deny the role of passion and and flattens the distance of relation.   Their is good reason why tribal members called everyone a familial name, brother, sister, cousin, uncle, or aunt and these terms reinforce the feeling of compassion and democracy by expanding the circle of kin.

Commerce encourages empathy, or at least sex and drinking together. My mother loved the Medic as business was business and enemy be damned. The trade routes of the world are littered with Romeo and Juliet stories. Business cuts through class and preference. Trade encourages integration. Physical contact encourages acceptance of varying views. People will engage in commerce as an excuse to socialize. Integration works but is not initially accepted except by a big carrot like commerce.

Self control helps contain violence and civilization provides value added techniques. “Economists have noted that when people are left to their own devices, they save far too little for their retirement, as if they expected to die in a few years. “ Pinker spends considerable time supporting Elias that self-control and violence are related. Furthermore that practicing self-control and impulse-control lowers violence. This is mostly a futuristic chapter with ideas and plans best stated “It’s also possible that people can learn strategies of self control, enjoy the feeling of mastery over their impulses, and transfer their newfound tricks of discipline from one part of their behavioral repertoire over another.” Apparently though considering world news in spring of an Arab Spring we have room for improvement here. The world is still on an unsustainable track due to violence, birth rates, and wanton resource depletion. Stephen would add but it’s getting better.

The historic difficulty is the compulsion to prioritize present needs over future needs. In the past delaying gratification removed motivation to action now for immediate survival. Now, delaying gratification benefits future states. It is as if the extent of reputation has extended far into the future. Grandparents, oral tradition, writing, and governance are all means of allowing the individual to extend the perception of life into the future. Overall, Pinker calls this the Civilizing Process. Who would have guessed that we would live beyond the reproductive phase? Anthropologists note the advantages of historical memory. The value of grandparents, physical recordings of events, and finally codified governance contained in writing.

Moral process. Pinker quotes Fiske and Tetlock “Over the last three centuries throughout the world there has been a rapidly accelerating tendency of social systems as a whole to move from Communal Sharing to Authority Ranking to Equality Matching to Market Pricing” Further Pinker writes “The trend towards social liberalism, then is a trend away from communal and authoritarian values and towards values based on equality, fairness, autonomy, and legally enforced rights.” Haidt has researched this and many chafe that conservatives are authority, purity, and loyalty based but the up side is that conservatives no longer invoke authority, tradition, or religion to justify racism, female domesticity, and gay bashing. Or at least not as much as they did.

Reason takes a dive in society now but the interesting point is the proliferation of reasoning and arguments to accomplish the goal. Derrida, Foucault, and Barthes did not opine from the heart and emote their intuitions. Some of the most extravagant and difficult arguments come from postmodernism. Neuroscience has used tremendous amounts of reason to show how we are biased as do economists. Never has reason been abandoned but rather if anything fetishized. Only conservative authority adherence discussions abandon reason for abeyance.

The best part of this chapter was a note on Hume. Many people think Hume refers to rationalizations. That people follow passions and support with reason. Pinker rightly notes “…he was not advising people to shoot from the hip, blow their stack, or fall head over heels for Mr Wrong. He was basically making the logical point that reason, by itself, is just a means of getting from one true proposition to the next and does not care about the value of the propositions.” Henry in Ayn Rand’s Atlas Shrugged continually made this point that it’s not the logic, it’s the premises–one of the few truths remaining in her books after time.

Nevertheless reason according to Pinker allows us to modify self control and moral sense. What is important here is that reasoning leads to accuracy. Bad arguments, bad inferences, and bad premises are more easily sorted out by reason. Reasoning allows us to moderate the more instinctive and rapid reasoning required in quick thinking.

The growth of education and the expanse of reason leads to less violence. “It is not a big leap to conclude that an education-fueled rise in reasoning ability made at least some parts of the world safe for democracy. Democracy by definition is associated with less government violence, and we know that is statistically associated with an aversion to interstate war, deadly ethnic riots, and genocide, and with a reduction in the severity of civil wars.”

In ”On Angel’s Wings” Pinker makes a strong supposition for protective government or the Leviathan, albeit more pleasant than Hobbe’s. “A state that uses a monopoly on force to protect its citizens from one another may be the most consistent violence-reducer that we have encountered in this book…A Leviathan–or his female counterpart–Justitia, the goddess of justice–is a disinterested party whose penalties are not inflated by the self serving biases of the participants, and who is not a deserving target of revenge.” By imposing a cost that is greater than the benefit a governance can make peace more attractive than aggression.

My mother used to say Italian mothers hated to send their sons to war. Pinker, acknowledging Yamaguchi the only survivor of both atomic bombs “The only people who should be allowed to govern countries with nuclear weapons are mothers , those who are still breast feeding their babies.” Furthermore “Several varieties of feminization, then–direct political empowerment, the deflation of manly honor, the promotion of marriage on women’s terms, the rights of girls to be born, and women’s control over their own reproduction–have been forces in the decline of violence.” This is a long way from the biblical admonishment that a rapist must marry his victim.

Pinkers’ penultimate reflection concerns humanism. “Discovering earthly ways in which human beings can flourish, including stratagems to overcome the tragedy of the inherent appeal of aggression, should be purpose enough for anyone. It is a goal nobler than joining a celestial choir, melting into a cosmic spirit, or being reincarnated into a higher life-form, because the goal can be justified to any fellow thinker rather than being inculcated to arbitrary factions by charisma, tradition, or force.”

His ultimate plea is that while he understands the mother’s cry for a lost child that it is the proportion of violence that does indeed count. It is not the number of people but the percent of people. Many reviewers criticize this aspect. That 1 death in 50 is better than 10 of 500 and so on.  I present that we are more sensitive to death in numbers than ever before. The battle of Antietem took 23,000 lives in one day. 9/11 a tenth of that. Our wars now measure casualties in double digits rather than thousands or tens of thousands. Our sensibility towards individual death is now so great that we watch the news of murders with the same kind of anger we reserved for battles.

Yet, when 9/11 occurred my reaction was it’s not so many people to justify a war. Not that there isn’t a good reason to battle totalitarianism in the world but effecting horror sated the terrorist desire to terrorize and we have colonized the world. While respecting Christopher Hitchen’s fine hawkish mood I would blame the provoker as well as the responder even if it’s a crook. As a policeman I would not provoke a known killer just so I could send a slug into his side. All violence is to be nill. I was chastised by my friend the physics teacher who said he’d lost a friend in there. Even with insurance of 5 million dollars the loss of a life is deep when it’s yours and cheap when it’s an enemy’s.

In a tribe of 50, the loss of a member instills grief that may last years and can hurt the survivability of the group. Yet modern relations of dead victims are also often permanently psychologically scarred–I think of a mother carrying a photo of her miscarried fetus for years–and the death of a leader has great impact. I am not sure 1 in 50 is worse than 100,000 of a million. Nor am I sure that loss is scalable. While not wanting to revert to a soul counting blessing I am not sure the percentage is good enough.

How often we tease death because we can get away with it and then at some point it happens on a really grand scale? Thinking you are going extinct is nearly as harmful as actually going extinct and the one may incur the other when it was preventable. I bet most of old europe would kill for our misery! Though Amsterdam in the Tulip bulb bubble era must have been amazing! In spite of its fall there wasn’t massive violent death. I can only tease at the cost of injury and misery versus death by number. Are 10 deaths equal to 100 life imprisonments? Would you accept a flogging of 10 lashes for 2, 5, 10 years in prison?

Only the belief in a finite number of souls that requires preservation could prioritize number over percent. An absolute number of saved souls makes sense only if a single soul has greater merit that several souls or there is some number to be reached. I would avoid the argument of is it better to save an Einstein than Joe Bagodonuts. The flattening of social class and status encourages the greater preservation of individuals versus the sacrifice of many to save a few.

Nevertheless I hope this heightened sensitivity to death shows how far we can continue.  Perhaps even the respect to animals and pets will ramp up our empathy and we will not eat animals nor abuse our pets if we even choose to have them.

“For all of the tribulations in our lives, for all of the troubles that remain in the world, the decline of violence is an accomplishment we can savor, and an impetus to cherish the forces of civilization and enlightenment that made it possible.” I only hope this meme spreads and the best part of the enlightenment, reason, compassion, generosity, passion, individual autonomy, and self control ring true for many more.

Copyright 2012 Jim Newman

 

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Clothes, Cussing, and Class

Why does President Obama have to wear suits and Michelle has to wear pretty, sleeveless stuff?

My grandfather FL Watkins President of Dakota Business College wore a black suit every day of his working life. He looked quite out of place on the weekends at the lakes with his “wife beater” undershirt moving dirt and garden debris sweat poring off his forehead. The DBC had a Charm School class for the female students to learn how to groom themselves for a career in business. In the sixties with Beehive hairdoos for women and Elvis doos for men the need for conservative attire better ensured them of work after graduation. Grandfather guaranteed a job for every student and published his success in the paper ad “Follow the $ucce$$ful.” The book they used, I can’t remember the title, was very 1950s oriented with pretty girls and suited boys. But the boys didn’t have to take the class. The Fifties goal being girls are to be fetching and men to be strong. All part of the Americanized Victorian character movement. Groom the character and make the man.

What always got me was the admonition that you are what you wear. This was the sixties and how the hell was that? A plumber should dress like a plumber? A farmer like a farmer? And a business man a suit? If it were halloween was I really the clown in the clown suit? If our lives were roles staged by clothing then what were we inside? Was there an inside? Intuitively it was superficial and dishonest. No wonder hippy children ripped off their clothes and went naked.

My mother used to say if a woman wants to get something from men she needs to put on a skirt. If your car breaks and you need to take it to the garage put on a skirt. You get results. She was single so she had to enter the male world on many levels. It’s become a trite movie cliche that when the girl needs something she can flash her boobs and drooling idiots trip over their tongues to help. Mother used to say when she travelled in Europe hitchhiking she thumbed and her boyfriend hid behind the bushes until the car stopped–and he was supposedly of Swedish royalty.

On the internet today I see web sites, even alternative liberal smart web sites, with slide shows of chicks displaying skin in submissive postures. I have thought to post the top 10 photo’s of Women with Brains and Boobs to see if it wouldn’t encourage a little traffic. Maybe I could photoshop Rosa Parks face on top of Iman’s body or Marie Curie’s face on top of J Lo  “the most beautiful woman in the world.” If we want absurdist theater let’s just go all the way,  just  short of anime porno where boobs are the size of watermelons and dicks like oak trees.

One of the earliest cartoon pornographies was of Betty Boop, developed after work in the cartoon studio. The man walked behind her drooling with member so large he pushed a wheel barrow in front to hold it. OK then…

It just seems so trite and neanderthal, yet sex and nature sell everything. It makes a travesty of sexual attraction. Though considering Darwin and the Peacock maybe I need to recalibrate. The oddest thing is how sexually repressed this country is in spite of all of this ogling. That men and women were told not to masturbate just makes you wonder. Universal I guess. That muslim women are inculcated to wear a hood and then “be a whore” to their husbands in private is depraved, pathetic, and abusive. I just can’t go on…

Men use intimidation. They bluster, yell, and condescend their way to compliance. But men can wear a uniform. The suit. How sad it is that creative expression involves the color of your tie, whether you wear sock garters, or your shoe style, wing tips or patent leather. The convenience and bullshit factor is that men don’t have to work at dressing while women must wear red power suits with a short skirt, just to be heard.

It is sad when women get boob jobs because they don’t think men are paying attention and they don’t get respect. Sadder when they have to resort to the self-esteem and confidence reason. Yet, insurance often doesn’t pay for a new rack when she has them removed for cancer. It used to be the way to get a man was through his stomach. Now it’s your tits. Fast food cured the first need.

We bring this on ourselves. Most women have a desire to be attractive and any 5 year old has figured out that means color, makeup, and skin–they just don’t know why. Men socially colorblind until it comes to gender seek retreat from attraction. They can rape their way to power so to speak except we use the word seduce or power. Is it not a popular male fantasy to have a woman in a nurse’s or maid’s uniform? What a great way to maintain class and domination while fantasizing support and unearned gifting. Oh, here, let me pay you and we can play another game.

Let me back up. Charles of England spent time in the court of Louis the XIV who lived opulently, ostentatiously, and oppressively. The dour English would not have appreciated this flagrant nobility and excess in their restoration of 1660. When Charles landed in England he wore “few foppish clothes–neutral, classical dress without the big wigs and red high heels popular on the continent”. He looked like “an ordinary bloke” (www.mensflair.com). He was nevertheless extravagant and profligate but it helped to hide it from the people. You are what you wear. Unless you’re not and who’s to know?

Flash forward, after buttons, sashes, and expensive cloth are added by those wishing for a higher style, to Beau Brummel. From Wikipedia “In the early 19th century, British dandy Beau Brummell redefined and adapted this style, then popularized it, leading European men to wearing well-cut, tailored clothes, adorned with carefully knotted neckties. The simplicity of the new clothes and their sombre colors contrasted strongly with the extravagant, foppish styles just before. Brummell’s influence introduced the modern era of men’s clothing which now includes the modern suit and necktie. Moreover, he introduced a whole new era of grooming and style, including regular (daily) bathing as part of a man’s toilet.

“In this regency period, the predominant upper-class clothing introduced by Brummell for day wear was a tightly fitting, dark coloured tailcoat with non-matching (usually pale) trousers, pale waistcoat, white shirt and cravat and tall boots.”

What is going on here is class. The growing middle class sought to appear like the upper class both by emulating the dress and by making it more accessible. Hence the preservation of ties, kerchiefs, and fancy but less expensive accouterment.

As the nobility loved to wear ever fancier and more difficult clothes to show their distance form commoners, the working, labor, and middle-class were furiously dragging them down while trying to ascend with their influx of money and power and newfound egalitarian individualism. Not only did you not pay indulgences, not heed papal authority, and not trust papal biblical exegesis you needed a plainer dress for the common man in the common language. Latin, Greek, Italian, French, etc but certainly not Hebrew. The most important thing was not the Jewish, Christian, and Muslim religious emphasis of studying the sacred text as supreme occupation for their nobility but commerce and worldly exposure through travel.

The working class had little power and the gentleman farmer could dress well while the slaves, serfs, and indentured labored. The working class had real power with the advent of tools from the industrial revolution when a person could produce seven times more and their hours finally became valuable enough to empower their new class and wage level.

The reformation with its emphasis on personal interpretation and simplicity railed against the smells and bells of Catholicism, icons, and even joyousness in reaction to high church. They realized they could not overwhelm the papal upper class but rather turn away from it in their spirituality seeking a different sort of moral high ground.

Queen Elizabeth was no fool when she created The Book of Common Prayer and mixed the extravagant rites and rituals of Catholicism with the accessibility of easy liturgy or Protestantism and then insist everyone attend as law. Even now secular Episcopalians enjoy the extravagance artistic appointments of the church while knowing they need not say amen if they disagree as long as they read the book and attend. It seems you can have it both ways. Sounds like casuistry to me.

Disparity of income created by the necessity of specialization endures as a status marker. It is not enough to make the money, you must recognize me as a better person for it. Marx and Hegel are still cackling in their graves. It is easy to deny the importance of materialism until you have no food, clothing, shelter, and no bitch like Mother Theresea to convince you poverty is good for you.

Cussing or the lack of it mimicked the ascendency of the suit, the female riding habit, and the work uniform. Cussing was of the working or low class. Aspiring middle class types did not cuss. It is vulgar and common. The lower class cussed to inflame their supposed superiors, their oppressors, as the only opposition they could muster with regularity.

Andrew Gray notes “One common non-literal use of swear words is as a way of venting anger or resentment, either in the form of a general interjection (F***ing hell!) or a personal insult. Many swear words are rich in fricative and plosive consonants that help to create a harsh and emotive sound. Often these insults accuse the subject of something deemed socially unacceptable: masturbation (wanker), incest (motherf***er), an illegitimate family background (bastard), or sexual deviance (bugger). These terms are rarely intended to be taken literally, but their unpleasant connotations may help to preserve their emotive nature. Alternatively, the subject may be likened to something offensive (arseholetwat). Some insults are completely nonsensical; the writer Bill Bryson (amongst others) has commented on the irony that a frustrated individual may incite a hated person to commit the very act that would give him the most pleasure.”

It’s important to note that admonitions against sex reigned. Sex was bad, evil. Body parts were disgusting and vulgar. For all three of the ruling world of Euro-Asia religions the emphasis was away from material towards the spiritual. Even with the absurd Byzantine and Catholic adornment and ornamentation of sacred things anything humanly physical smacked on embodied sin. Judaism had long lost it’s flush for ornamentation and not had a chance to really come to power. Nevertheless women have always been subservient and sex always taking away from true faith.

1700 hundred years earlier, Catullus left his family’s villa, went to the court in Rome, and wrote love poems filled innuendoes of sex and hedonism as he woo’d Lesbia a pseudonym for Claudia and perhaps others. Even when speaking of events his words are expressive, evocative, and energizing. As such I can’t even begin to go further. Latin sex terms are not euphemistic in any way. But he was in high court, associate of Cicero, and not in any way a commoner through from a rural villa visited by Cicero. This would be the upper class deconstructing itself.

The first line of Carmen 16 has been called “one of the filthiest expressions ever written in Latin–or in any other language for that matter.” according to Harry Mount. Part of the poetae novi, or new poets, he wrote not of heros and war but rather extremely well crafted descriptions of everyday matters, including rude and obscene invectives against friends turned traitors, other lovers, and well known poets.

From Wikipedia “But it is not the traditional notions Catullus rejects, merely their monopolized application to the vita activa of politics and war. Indeed, he tries to reinvent these notions from a personal point of view and to introduce them into human relationships. For example, he applies the word fides, which traditionally meant faithfulness towards one’s political allies, to his relationship with Lesbia and reinterprets it as unconditional faithfulness in love. So, despite seeming frivolity of his lifestyle, Catullus measured himself and his friends by quite ambitious standards.”

I mention this because the reemergence of cussing as a means of distancing the upper and middle class from the lower class exists today. Catullus did it from within is certainly more noble than papal insulation. Within the more recent upper class cussing like Levi jeans is a blue collar value. We’ve lost the unions but kept the disability. As Levis and swearing became popular, more expensive jeans and more educated swearing was employed to maintain distance.

There is no intrinsic reason for disliking certain words over another; when is a synonym not. It is entirely cultural. Just as dress becomes fancy, words become longer. A person in Armani might say “egregious” when they could as well say “fucking stupid” but at least they are showing they are educated or different, not like them. Christopher Hitchens writes on the English origin and cultural use of Fuck Off  in a Very, Very Dirty Word. His other writings are peppered with swearing. He also refuses to wear a tie.

Charles Bukowski writes poems so filled with cussing it almost seems deadpan but the intent is to emote and communicate strongly and to shock the class that dominates. A drunk and a gambler CB is a nothing to the upper or middle-class but his books are read around the world and speak strongly to those unhappy with the status quo.

Cuss words are usually sexual or about bodily functions and parts. Taboo subjects to the middle and upper class. What better way to annoy the people above you than to employ taboo words so repetitively they nearly lose their shock value? A wealthy patron has a mistress, a worker has a whore. A rich man has an escort. A midler a prostitute.

As such dressing for sex appeal has a similar use. What better way to tell your parents to fuck off than to wear Daisy Dukes short-shorts when your mum wouldn’t be caught dead in a bikini on a hot day at the beach with no one around? This exerts tension and helps form identity. Children go away from the parents likes and towards their dislikes. In social classes it’s to annoy the oppressor and display solidarity.

Let’s do sexual bling. If a girl can show her abilities with peek-a-boo dressing, a boy can show it with a gold chain big enough to tow a small car. Even today a poor girl can get attention from a rich boy if she flashes some epidermis or acts slutty. Society has yet to remedy the conflict of sexual freedom and sexual oppression. Sexual freedom has been expressed by repressed girls by acting like a slut. Media are full of it. You can walk through San Jose in Costa Rica and see girls dressed ready to play and it’s not about freedom of expression. Ask them though and they just want some attention, to look pretty.

The entire punk movement is an anthem against established power using garbage clothing, trash talk, and cruelly loud disharmonic music to carry its point, right through your eardrums if necessary.

In the high technology revolution. The complexity of computers created a new class of sorts pejoratively called geeks where unwashed, bearded, and unkempt “tech gurus” could hostage a company for more money, and break established workplace norms. The administrators maintained their suits and eventually the UNIX etc boffins were cloistered in R&D spaces. In spite of the image, the Apple people I knew wore suits. The IBMers wore three-piece. The first audience was the public and the second was the corporation. Yet soon geeks had some panache as they had money and hung out at home. Wealth like liquor clouds the eyes.

Under the guise of a uniform that cuts through class for business egalitarianism there lay an egregious nobility of high tech managers, marketeers, and sales and field staff that clung to their flair of superiority like fish on a line from the king, uh, chairman I mean. Field technicians carried tools in briefcases, took off their jacket, rolled up their sleeves, loosened their tie, and mused their hair getting to the backplane of computers. DEC guys were more casual. IBM guys still three piece and they were willing to ruin the suit if necessary.

Wal-Mart emulated this when they had suck-up employees wear flair, badges on a vest, to improve moral as they continued to pay low wages, deny health benefits, and limit hours. They created an ascending culture where employees wanted to be there to work together as a lifestyle choice. In midwest small towns girls and boys work in the ubiquitous Wal-Marts and McDonalds for socializing and the mall was the new commons. Flair showed status like being the queen of the display stockers. Management found a little flair was worth real money. Employees gave up income for display of postion in the new court.

The preservation of status was clear. Clothes make the man and define the company.

At Eaton-Kenway I was asked to write an article about a particularly able engineer who wore a three-piece suit every day. EK was a casual company and only the Project Managers wore suits in these R&D bull pens of the new cubicle world. EK made automated storage-retrieval systems where one person could manage an entire warehouse. Blue collar product so to speak. This engineer of hispanic background always wore a fresh, ultra-white, well-ironed shirt. When I photographed him I asked why the suit. He said he wore it every day as a badge of honor that he had risen above his impoverished origins. I photographed him as the thinker and he loved it.

If you wanted to succeed and rise wear a suit when others don’t. I fell into that trap and for awhile attempted to wear a Harris Tweed from my first wedding and smoke a pipe to look like a proper writer. Causal formal, country elegant, and practical beauty. I failed utterly, feeling stupid and alien to myself, and so retired this badge of not so subtle counter nobility.  Creatives had a little freedom like the programmers who didn’t have to wash every day.

Nevertheless, when I moved to California and wore a suit at Zero-One, they made Cray compatible subsystems, for ten weeks before they laid off the entire department, I noticed a huge jump in service and respect from everyone. Whether it was the grocery store, the bank, or the gas station.

Shopping at Nob Hill grocery in Los Gatos everyone wore a suit or if you were a female in a “power suit” told the entire story. I had never seen more Porsches in my life. I felt a palpable smear of superiority in the air. Even their social graces were superior as they moved about each other in hyperaware consideration. Oddly aware of personal contact and connection. California was the first place I saw very long (several inches), curved, finger nails worn by fashionable orientals to show they did not, could not use their hands for any manual labor.

My mother teaching piano insisted her students trim nails short. No student could play properly with even some what long nails. Other than practicing regularly it was the single hardest thing to get her students to do.

As an aside Doctors wore ties until with great reluctance they were willing to believe that they really did spread germs like no other article in the office.

The cravat or tie came from Croatian mercenaries in the French service. From Wikipedia “In 1660, in celebration of its hard-fought victory over the Ottoman Empire, a crack regiment from Croatia visited Paris. There, the soldiers were presented as glorious heroes to Louis XIV, a monarch well known for his eye toward personal adornment. It so happened that the officers of this regiment were wearing brightly colored handkerchiefs fashioned of silk around their necks. These neck cloths struck the fancy of the king, and he soon made them an insignia of royalty as he created a regiment of Royal Cravattes. The word “cravat” is derived from the à la croate—in the style of the Croats.”

The modern necktie was born in the industrial revolution. The knot was easy to tie and the material was more practical being thin and narrow. Nor did the knot come undone such that even a worker could wear a tie. Ties can fashionably vary a bit in width a couple inches but standard length is 57 inches. The Windsor knot is used on a tie 40 cm longer and is attributed to the Duke of Windsor. It requires a more open collar and stays tight even under diurress. It is standard for the Royal Air Forces and Canadian forces. The air force was the privileged military class when planes became effective weapons requiring greater training and keener abilities than the infantry demanded. Even in battle you can wear your flair!

Ian Flemming acknowledged the status of the Windsor as derrogatory to real class. from Wikipedia “James Bond never trusted a man who boasted a Windsor Knot; “It was tied with a Windsor knot. Bond mistrusted anyone who tied his tie with a Windsor knot. It showed too much vanity. It was often the mark of a cad.” -From Russia With Love

Europe adored their young men returning from Italy in fancy ties and calling them Macaronis. They were the incroyables, Wikipedia, “The Incroyables (Incredibles) and their female counterparts, the Merveilleuses (Marvelous women, roughly equivalent in this context to “fabulous divas”), were members of a fashionable aristocratic subculture of the Directory period. Whether as catharsis or in a need to reconnect with other survivors of the Reign of Terror, they greeted the new regime with an outbreak of luxury, decadence and even silliness.”

The clerical collar was designed to separate the clergy from the masses and looked back to the early detachable collar. “By 1840, the Anglican clergyman developed a sense of separation between himself and the secular world. One outward symbol of this was the adoption of distinctive clerical dress. This had started with the black coat and white necktie which had been worn for some decades. By the 1880s it had been transmuted into the clerical collar, which was worn almost constantly by the majority of clergy for the rest of the period.

The working man was glad to get rid of the stiff and uncomfortable removable collar. While nobles could enjoy their imprisonment as status the middle-class needed phsyical freedom to produce, make money, and ascend upward. The unstarched turn down collar hid the tie and still allowed a tight latch at the neck without start, metal buttons, or small ties.

Neru in reaction to westernism and seeking a more practical Indian identity created the Neru jacket for every day use by government officials, consisting of the collar of the achkan, historically the royal court dress of Indian nobles and a shorter more practical length than the traditional coat. The Beatles and Monkeys wore it and I had one and wore it with a “dickey” or fake shirt for a year in elementary school.

The say women like a man in uniform as it shows power, prestige, and money. Cindy Crawford says she fell for Richard Gere in An Officer and a Gentleman and their relationship broke down when it turned out he was really a closet then open Buddhist and a non materialist.

Marvin Harris writes about the differences of male and female status. From www.ishk.com paraphrasing MH “Women can do every job that men can do. The alleged biological basis for sexual division of labor is, in Harris’s view ‘a lot of nonsense.’ Then only human activity, other than sex, for which male specialization is indispensable, is war involving hand weapons. War inverts the relative value of the contribution made by males and females to a group’s prospects of survival.”

In war, men leave home to fight and matrilineal hierarchies excel–the Iroquois famous for matriarch and confederation were merely compensating for long war raids far away. Jewish women ruled not for equality or even to track ancestry but so the men could insulate themselves and study the pentateuch to exclusion of all else.  Since men need nutrition and material for war they achieve greater status at home as well. Women could fight but more warriors are needed. The returning warrior gets the pick of the women and the first serving from the cooking pot. The field uniform of war is exchanged for the parade uniform of status. The hero gets special medals. Is it a surprise that women like a man in uniform?

People use clothes and language to both define their status and disguise it?

The maintenance of status differences between gender is abundantly displayed still. When Michelle Obama wears sleeveless tops it is written off as a style choice. When Obama wears a suit he is displaying the business uniform, the suit of world ascendancy of capitalism. She, a black woman, needs to show the right class without being too ostentatious or sexual. He needs to show he’s part of the club without looking too uppity or vulgar. Men hate his intelligence and women hate her arms.

While one can use clothing like cussing to express oneself creatively or emotively they typically echo the sentiment that women should be sexually attractive and men should be part of the power brotherhood. Only a country, southern bumpkin idealist like Jimmy Carter would wear Levi cut-offs and only the secure wife of the upper-crust, dynasty-bred, amphetamine-crazed Kennedy could fetishize clothes and harken to the middle-class, wanna-be-upper, fashion-fan notoriety as Jackie did. When Kennedy died she married the reclusive, protective, self-made royal zillionaire Onassis.

Copyright 2012 Jim Newman

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A Second Review of “Lying” by Sam and Ananka Harris

This engaging book by Sam and Ananka Harris encouraged me to reexamine my ideas of acceptable lying. I ended up spending an incredible amount of time thinking, reading, and writing about Honesty, Trust, and Integrity as serious social issues; especially for me with lying as violence against another’s autonomy.

This 2 dollar download is an accessible form essential to broadening our moral education base. If we are to encourage a universal discourse of morality we need books like this. Otherwise there is a vacuum between the facile lie of Washington and the Cherry Tree and and the inaccessible reproach to never lie.

Sam and Ananka start with “Among the many paradoxes of human life, this is perhaps the most peculiar and consequential: We often behave in ways that are guaranteed to make us unhappy… Nowhere do our injuries seem more casually self-inflicted, or the suffering we create more disproportionate to the needs of the moment, than in the lies we tell to other human beings.”

Further more “…but I knew that endless forms of suffering and embarrassment could be easily avoided by simply telling the truth.” This statement bother readers the most, as I see in various reviews. Near everyone can think of a situation where telling the truth is “obviously” more harmful than lying. Sam and Ananka want us to consider whether this quick reaction is correct. Could most cases of compassionate lying be better resolved by honesty? Is it facile to ask us to stop lying? If a murderer were at the door should we lie.

“What is a lie?” discusses the various kinds of definitions but they propose at first “To lie is to intentionally mislead others when they expect honest communication.” This sentence is footnoted to show their exclusion of selfdeception “…but truly believing one’s own falsehoods is tantamount to honesty.” This definition should be read closely because most of the criticism of this book is due to misconsidering it.

In particular, “…when they expect honest communication.” This categorical exclusion teases out exceptions offered against lying as a moral imperative. In the sense of a language game that one might or even ought to learn, as in Wittgenstein. We expect to be lied to by magicians and poker players. But this does really beg the question of the expectations of honest relationships with chronic liars, lying in social circles where say flattery and feeling suspension is expected, and war and aggression where social rules are also suspended and lying is expected. In some cases we learn that lying is OK as in social courtesies as might be found in Miss Manners. Nevertheless, Sam and Ananka are going to ask us whether it really was necessary to lie.

In subsequent chapters of examples and discussions including The Mirror of Honesty, Two Types of Lies, White Lies, Trust, Honesty, Faint Praise, Secrets, Lies in Extremis, Mental Accounting, Integrity, and Big Lies they interlace examples with further refinements of their premise. This can be proposed as a measure of action. What are the extenuating circumstances, if any, when lying is the best choice?

This is not a book about the definitions of lying as might be discussed philosophically, the deontological, teleological, character, or theory of justice types of definitions. Rather it simply asserts that we often lie when we don’t really want to. We often miscalculate the need to lie. Even with the best of intentions we may lie gratuitously or on poor foundation.

A consequentialist may lie when they think the result is helpful but they may not be aware of other important issues. Lying takes away the freedom of the individual to decide for themselves. Intimacy is lost. The relation is objectified even if in only some small way, yet, insidiously with duration. It also presumes they know the consequences with great accuracy. Often in circumstances when they do not.

In “Lies in Extremis” Kant is discussed as he reasons that one never lie ever. It is a duty adhered to without consideration of consequence which can never be good. They respond “I cannot see any reason to take Kant seriously on this point. However, this does not mean that lying is easily justified. Even as a means to ward off violence, lying often closes the door to acts of honest communication that may be more effective.” They challenge us in cases of survival to reconsider.

In the end of this chapter they note the horrible dissonance of breaking the law. “One of the worst things about breaking the law is that it puts one at odds with an indeterminate number of other people. This is among the many corrosive effects of having unjust laws: They tempt peaceful and (otherwise) honest people to lie so as to avoid being punished for behavior that is ethically blameless.” This comment is in relation to drug laws and surely many readers will insist that unjust laws are not easily determined; that drug laws are just. And many see laws as duty and there is no such thing as conscientious civil disobedience. Sam and Ananka don’t address this. This is a huge social justice issue that can’t be discussed easily. It does show how important it is to make laws just and how horrible it is to have to live as an outlaw even though we flatter it in the media; perhaps because it is so scary and common.

By simply not lying whenever you can you do not spend tremendous energy deciding when to lie, how much to lie, how long to lie, and how long to remember the lie. Nor do you engage in cognitive dissonance where you are aren’t sure of the virtue or accuracy of your actions, as well as the dissonance of preferring not to lie but feeling like you have to.

Referencing the research of P.J. Kabfelisch “Research suggests that all forms of lying–including white lies meant to spare the feelings of others–are associated with poorer quality relationships.” So why lie? The pressure to do so must be great if it invokes a feeling of compromise.

In answering this Sam and Ananka look at common situations where we choose to lie. In one he mentions how he says his friend is fat but does it in such a way that his friend takes it to heart, loses weight, and thanks him. Clearly this situation is sensitive but that is why it is included. Even in these most socially sensitive situations it is usually possible to be honest. And in some cases it may lead to much greater good than a deceit. But I would guess everyone reading this groaned at the sensitivity and social risk involved.

It could be equally true that everyone agrees to a suspension of truth when discussing issues of self image–a social contract of culture. This would also be a subtle language game. Their point is that if you have to learn a language game it may be better to learn one that leads to more honest results with mutual benefits. But it could also be a truism that salesmen, lawyers, and politicians always lie. But wouldn’t it be better if they didn’t? Does this really counter the near universality of lying or is this futuristic moral pie in the sky stuff like living on Mars?

To be clear honesty is not about spilling your guts or opinions on every matter. The boor who constantly expresses their opinion on everything every time it comes up is not being honest. Nor is it necessary to reveal your new opinion every time a new opinion is expressed or requested.

In “Secrets” Sam and Ananka note the difference. “A commitment to honesty does not necessarily require that we disclose the facts about ourselves that we would prefer to keep quiet. If someone asks how much money you have in your bank account, you are under no ethical obligation to tell him. The truth could well be, “I’d rather not say.”

Trust is critical. Relationships establish and grow based on trust. When one is lied to and trust is gone there is always some suspicion of what is meant in the future. If people want to help each other understand their needs and have them met then trust needs to be preserved. While it is convenient to lie about missing a date, disliking something, or even an opinion about a relationship question when asked the loss of trust is difficult to overcome. “She simply does not trust her as much as she used to, having heard her lie without compunction to another friend.” In this case they are discussing an overheard voicemail with an obvious lie.

Faint praise is also eroding “But when asked for our opinion, we do our friends no favors by pretending not to notice flaws in their work, especially when those who are not their friends are bound to notice the same flaws.” How do you tell someone their writing reads like crap. Maybe someone else will like it? Wouldn’t it be better if you could express your requested opinion honestly but in such a way as to not be vicious?

In “Big Lies” “Most of us are now painfully aware that our trust in government, corporations, or other public institutions has been undermined by lies.” The rewards of lying are huge as government, business, and social institutions grow. The desire to eliminate regulation only helps liars. If voters considered companies like sports, say wrestling, as an outside choice, where rules are meant to allow a fair game they might better understand why issues like truth in advertising and corporate sponsorship matter.

In the end, with danger at the door it is still better not to lie. “In those circumstances where we deem it obviously necessary to lie, we have generally determined that the person to be deceived is both dangerous and unreachable by any recourse to the truth. In other words, we have judged the prospects of establishing a real relationship with this person to be nonexistent. For most of us, such circumstances arise very rarely in life, if ever.”

“Telling the truth in such circumstances need not amount to acquiescence. The truth in this case could well be, “I wouldn’t tell you even if I knew. And if you take another step, I’ll put a bullet in your brain. But if lying seems the only option, given your fears or limitations, it clearly shifts the burden of combating evil onto others.” This gives room for situations where people feel survival is at stake whether it is social, occupational, familial, or physical. There needs to be greater emphasis on education towards ameliorating these biases and giving people tools that allow them to imagine better means of handling these delicate situations.

In the “Conclusion” Sam and Ananka place the burden squarely on us. “By lying, we deny others a view of the world as it is. Our dishonesty not only influences the choices they make, it often determines the choices they can make–and in ways we cannot always predict. Every lie is a direct assault upon the autonomy of those we lie to.”

As a diverse country and world of many cultures with the need to live together peacefully we need universal moral discussion and education. It’s not about being the same. It’s about sharing a common moral language within which we can more eloquently expound our differences and realize our propositions. Local values, local truths, and local morals are better vitalized through grater universal understanding and then, informed compassion.

They ask “How would your relationships change if you resolved never to lie again? What truths might suddenly come into view in your life? What kind of person would you become? And how might you change the people around you?” If you can imagine a difference maybe it’s worth trying a different strategy.

If after digesting “Lying” you want more Sissela Bok’s book “Lying Moral Choice in the Public and Private Sphere” is a good choice.

Copyright 2012 Jim Newman

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